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November 29th, 2005, 06:04 PM
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Next Monday we go in to see the sex of the baby but I always get scared right before a dr or ultra sound. Canít seem really relax before the appts. Due to 2 prior m/s. The dr has never said anything negative this time around and everything is going good. Do other people feel this way before going to the dr?
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November 30th, 2005, 10:33 AM
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I'm not quite as far along as you, but I do know what you're feeling. Unfortunately, we have the realization that everything is not always perfect, so that's all we think about before seeing the baby again.
I hope your appointment goes well and let us know what you're having!!

"Nothing in this world worth having is easy"
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November 30th, 2005, 10:49 AM
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First let me wish you the best of luck with your appointment! I have felt like this, with ultrasounds in particular. Both times I miscarried I didn't know anything was wrong (no bleeding, cramping - no signs) - until I went to have the first ultrasound and found that it had stopped growing several weeks prior. So needless to say, everytime I go for an ultrasound I expect to hear the worst - even at my 20 week I was so nervous almost to the point of throwing up because of worry.

I really try to view the doctor's appointments as a way of confirming that my little guy is still ok, but there's always that tiny nagging doubt. I have to say that since i've been able to feel him move & kick on a regular basis is really once I started to calm down and worry so much less.

Good luck in finding out the sex!! It is such an awesome experience
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December 5th, 2005, 12:20 PM
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I'm sure it will be fine. I have a huge fear of u/s this time around. My baby died shortly after our big u/s where we found out everything was perfect so now I don't have much faith in them.

I'm sure for you though it will be fine and you will have a healthy baby in there. Good luck on finding the sex.
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December 5th, 2005, 02:15 PM
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With my first u/s I was scared, I was scared until after I heard the h/b. Thats when I finally calmed down some and relaxed about this pregnancy sticking.

Try not to stress too much. I know it's hard to do though!!!


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December 5th, 2005, 06:08 PM
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Location: lith, IL
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we are doing good and found out we r having a boy. thanks for all the feedback. I just pray that everything stays positive.
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December 12th, 2005, 01:56 PM
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M/c sure takes the innocence out of pregnancy. My first ultrasound before my m/c was pure excitement...I couldn't wait to see my little one on the screen. Wednesday will be my first ultrasound since my m/c with my new little one. I am so anxious... all I have been doing is praying my little one is healthy and strong!


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