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November 30th, 2005, 06:45 PM
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I keep trying but it's like I'm afraid to get to know people there. Like it will all be taken away again. Anyone else feel this way? And I am just so worried about everything I can't get into the happy spirit. I know I should, but well I figured you guys would understand.
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December 1st, 2005, 09:56 AM
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I definitely know how you're feeling. It's like the excitement of being in a DDC is overpowered by the idea that you're going to have to leave anyway. I felt that way a lot in the beginning and I just couldn't get to know anyone. I'm starting to feel that way again and it's a horrible feeling. Hang in there, come talk to us if you need to!

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December 1st, 2005, 11:25 AM
Join Date: Nov 2005
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I'm right there with 'ya! Had two m/c last year, took 12 months to get pregnant again. I am 4w 3d today and just taking it one day at a time. I went ahead and joined the DDC because either way, I could end up regretting something.

1) If I DON'T try to enjoy this pgcy while I have it and hope that all will be well and have the fun that can come with that because I am paranoid it will end, then I'll regret not having kept track of these early times if it DOES work out in the end.
2) If I DO have fun with this pgcy and believe that it's going to go full term and talk with people in the DDC then I will regret having to tell them it didn't work out if it doesn't.

So, it's really a matter of deciding which you will regret more in the end. I, personally, would regret not having documented every minute of this pregnancy for this baby if this baby ends up in my arms healthy and thriving in August. Whereas if it ends and I have to tell some people on this forum, that won't be as big of a regret for ME.
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December 2nd, 2005, 06:25 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2005
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I know what you mean. I really don't go in my DDC a lot because of the fear of losing my baby. I did have a ultrasound yesterday so I have been in there more today.

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