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August 6th, 2008, 07:17 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Oct 2006
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So I have this maternity shirt that I just loved to wear when I was pregnant with Abby and I see it folded up in the box that I kept all of my pregnancy things. It happens to be the shirt that I wore to the hospital when she was delivered. Of course I was wearing a gown when I delivered, but its the same shirt that I wore when they told me there was no heartbeat and I didn't change on the way to the hospital. Now I would really love to wear it, but I just can't bring myself to wear it. I am not a superstitious person, but it just brings up too many sad memories. Does anyone else have something like that or am I the only one that thinks this way?
Thank you Mistyx5 for my siggy.

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August 6th, 2008, 07:50 PM
*Bobbie*'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 15,851
You aren't alone. I can't wear my favorite PJ pants cause I was wearing them when my water broke and the m/c started. Maybe it is time to go shopping for a new favorite shirt for Hannah.

Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (23) Amanda (20) Matthew ( 6) and Daniel (4).... RYAN DAVID 1/4/14 8lbs 10oz 20 3/4 inches!!! My miracle happened!
step-mom to: Stephany (24) and Krista (21)
step-grandma to: Wesley, Rosemarie, Scarlett

On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon.
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pictures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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August 6th, 2008, 09:08 PM
*Judy*'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: California
Posts: 3,320
I actuall threw away the clothes I was wearing when I miscarried...I just couldn't deal with them, so you are not alone!
Thanks BAM for my amazing siggy
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August 6th, 2008, 09:58 PM
Madison.Hailey.Zack's Avatar Mom of 2 Girls and a Boy!
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Michigan
Posts: 11,069
I have a baby blanket that I got for Samantha and I cant now and will not use it with Madison. I know its different then clothes but I have the same feeling about the blanket.

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August 7th, 2008, 08:13 AM
Pitridge's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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I honestly can't say that I remember what I was wearing when I had the m/c, and they wold fit now either way. Mine is actually a person, I used to talk to this guy at work all the time when I was first pg, and with this one I keep my distant, not that he cause the m/c but I can't bring myself to hang out with him during this pg. We are still friends but it's not like it use t o be. I don't maybe that makes me sort of a bad friend...

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August 7th, 2008, 08:45 AM
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Location: California
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Totally normal, you are not alone. I had to throw away the shirt I wore when I found outmy baby had no heartbeat, it just hurt to much and I knew I could NEVER wear it again. Just brought up to many sad painful memories
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