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December 15th, 2005, 03:51 PM
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I know there have been a lot of M/C in the July DDC and with me having one myself in June I can't help but to be scared that I am going to have another one. OMG all of these people having a M/C is breaking my heart!

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December 16th, 2005, 11:23 AM
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December 16th, 2005, 03:50 PM
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I haven't seen too many in my DDC yet, but I know they will happen. It scares me too. I know even though I lost my last baby and my odds are good this time, I am still scared.

I have my first u/s on Monday - I hope we can see a h/b.
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December 22nd, 2005, 09:59 AM
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It's hard, huh? I had 2 miscarriages before this pregnancy and then once I got up the guts to join a DD board, I saw about 15 women within the first 14 weeks leave because they lost their babies. Not very encouraging for me since I was already fearing it like crazy...especially my friend who lost hers at 14 weeks, and I was a few weeks behind her, so I had to come up to that point praying to get past it.

It is definately heartbreaking, especially when we already know the pain. You're doing great though! Quickly nearing your 2nd tri!!
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December 28th, 2005, 07:13 AM
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It's the reason I can't get excited...I'm so terrified of losing it!

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December 30th, 2005, 01:19 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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I totally feel the same way. I lost my last pregnancy last December and now I'm terrified to lose this one. I try to not wory about it for the baby's sake but just can't help it. I want this one sooo bad. And it took me so long to get pregnant again. It seems like every little pain or discomfort I start freaking out. Im glad I'm not the only one who feels like this. I hope so bad we dont all lose them. I'll be praying for us.
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January 1st, 2006, 08:54 PM
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I'm in that DDC with you and I've had to stay away for a little while because of this. I felt so bad that I couldn't give more support, since I've been through it, but it was making me think that there was something wrong with me too. Hang in there....

"Nothing in this world worth having is easy"
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January 1st, 2006, 09:03 PM
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i know the feeling in july me and my husband concieved we were excited
planning everything and on the 4th of sep miscarried started bleeding lightly
with then later that day strong with strong cramps next day i had a big clot that
came out looked like a liver horrible i didnt know what to blame or who myself
so scared to try to concieve again i cried so many times still makes me sad but after
a cycle tried again and got pregnant and now 11w5d i will tell you that with the following
pregnanies you will panic with every change in your body every pull but your able to let go
but never forget the angel!
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