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August 12th, 2008, 08:42 PM
Zoostergirl's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Okay, after five years and three miscarriages I am thrilled to be pregnant and in my second trimester!

Tonight while out for coffee, my best friend tells me she is pregnant too. Now don't get me wrong, I am very happy for her and very much looking forward to being pregnant together, but she and her husband literally had sex once for each of the three children they conceived (this will be their third child).

Some people have it so darn easy. Happy for her, but arghhhh! And for some reason it makes me paranoid that I'll miscarry. The first time I was pregnant she got pregnant right after me too.

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August 12th, 2008, 10:43 PM
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Its okay to feel like that, when I found out a co-worker was pregnant it made me worry more about having my son to premature to make it..I have a history of pre-term..lost my first son 21wks, and I was afraid I would lost my son, and have to face her pregnancy every day at work..pregnancy after loss is so so hard.
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August 13th, 2008, 08:22 AM
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It's amazing isn't it? I know after all of my losses, I always go through the "fairness" kick feeling sorry for myself. Also, I'm in the March DDC, what I wouldn't do to have the naiveness of thinking it's that simple... get pregnant, have a baby! I also have to tell myself that the losses I've had were for a reason... not sure what it is just yet, but someday I will know gods plan and I know I will see my babies again. The first one I know... I wouldn't have my daughters had that pregnancy worked out and I wouldn't trade them for the world!
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1st Loss~08/14/00-No EDD
03/10/92-My beautiful daughter Kalina's Birthday!
05/12/94-My beautiful daughter Sierra's Birthday!
2nd Loss at 28 weeks~09/12/05 (Charlie's angel day - Trisomy 18)
3rd Loss at 15 weeks~03/04/06-EDD 08/23/06
4th Loss at 9 1/2 weeks~09/12/06-EDD 04/08/07
5th Loss at 9 1/2 weeks~girl 01/14/08-EDD 07/23/08
6th Loss at 19 weeks~10/04/08 (Joey's angel Day - Cord accident)</div>

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August 13th, 2008, 10:27 AM
keekopeeko's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Its okay to feel that way.. i think its only human nature..

I totally understand!

~Em, Married to Matt since 7/3/04. Mommy to Layla 3/29/06, Eva 10/18/08, Zeke 2/4/11, and Jonah 7/28/13

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August 13th, 2008, 10:56 AM
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I agree!!! It is human. We have had losses and so when people have it so easy it just makes us upset!
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