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January 23rd, 2006, 07:17 AM
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So goes the cycle. Are you guys like this too?? Sometimes I feel on top of the world & so confident w/ this pregnancy. And other times I'm still thinking that it'll end poorly. I'm getting tired of the emotional roller coaster. Am I the only one who does this??
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January 23rd, 2006, 09:14 AM
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Nope you're not alone! I am feeling very much the same way...cherish the happy times...I'm hoping those will become more frequent as the weeks pass and I get more confident.
Mommy to miracle baby 4/23/08 and four babies in heaven:lost 3/22/05 edd 10/28/05, lost 5/25/05 edd 12/26/05, lost 1/31/06 edd 9/19/06

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January 23rd, 2006, 11:15 AM
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I finally let myself feel happy about this pregnancy and actually thought about what it will be like to bring this baby home. Then I immediately got scared and thought, nope can't think too far ahead. It's frustrating. I want to buy baby stuff, but I promised myself I wouldn't until the baby was born. It was just too hard to return things last time.

So yes, I know how you feel!
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January 23rd, 2006, 02:30 PM
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I am riding that roller coaster with you all. I want to get off!!!!!!! B
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January 23rd, 2006, 07:02 PM
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So glad I'm not alone in this thinking. i thought I was nuts.

So what do you do to help calm your nerves? I try to force myself to think positively... or just distract myself completely. It doesn't work for long tho...
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January 24th, 2006, 02:57 AM
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Oh, I am so on this boat!!!

When I am thinking that something is wrong, I just remember that I am not spotting and I have no reason to think that this pregnancy will end in m/c. It does help, but the worry is always there.

One of the things that comforts me is to know that most/all of the ladies on this board are having the same feelings as me. I know what I am feeling is normal....I know that I can vent my frustrations, feelings, etc. to all of you ladies and you will support me.

Hang in there...we are in this together.

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January 24th, 2006, 04:44 AM
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You know, I've actually decided to buy some things when I get my second U/S showing a good heartbeat. I do feel good about this one. I have started saying "when I have the baby" instead of "if". I love this baby already, and even if I did lose it, I would still want to be happy that I have it my life right now. Now, I still worry on occasion, but I would say the times I dont worry are more numerous than when I do.
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