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January 28th, 2006, 04:36 AM
LeedaRenee's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am afraid to go because everything seems to be going well. I keep thinking, what if I go to the doctor's and she finds no heartbeat or no baby? A lot of ladies in my DDC have gotten a heartbeat, for some silly reason I almost feel like there wont be enough heartbeats to go around.
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January 28th, 2006, 04:41 AM
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Awwwww i'm sorry your feeling like this but after a m/c you automaticly think things like this don't you? Keep your head up and try not to worry too much, wouldn't you perfer to goto the doc and see your baby's alright? Go ahead and put your mind at rest! xx
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January 28th, 2006, 07:13 AM
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Renee, Gosh I do this right before every appt. It is so hard, but your positive attitude will carry you and that sweet baby through. Hugs B
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January 28th, 2006, 08:46 AM
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Don't be afraid, I think your better of going and have your mind put to ease.
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January 28th, 2006, 09:20 AM
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Hun, I know how you feel . Yesterday before my appt i had myself so worked up that i thought i was going to throw up. I was terrified that something was wrong. I think it is totally natural for all of us to feel this way. I am scared too! I have to go back in 2 weeks to actually see the baby and i am sure i will be feeling just like you. Just try not to stress to much (yeah right) and once you see your little baby and its heartbeat you will feel so much better about it all. I am thinking of you ....try to keep your chin up.

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January 28th, 2006, 11:16 AM
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yup, I know that feeling. I'm sure everything is fine.
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January 28th, 2006, 02:43 PM
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I felt the same way. I'm sure everything will be ok!!
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January 29th, 2006, 08:20 PM
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Before my first us I pretty much convinced myself there wouldnt be a hb, so when the tech said she saw it, I was literally in shock- but a happy shock! Hang in there and we all know how you feel! I go back in 2 weeks and I am hoping they can find it with the doppler!
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February 4th, 2006, 10:28 AM
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I feel the EXACT same way. I had one loss, three children, another loss and another baby. I know it may not happen but it could. I can't hardly get excited or happy because I feel like as soon as I do it will get taken from me.
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February 5th, 2006, 04:06 PM
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When do you go to your first dr. appt?? I was thinking about you and hoping for the best

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