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Its Feb, instead of prepping for Labor & Delivery, I wished my old DDC well....

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February 1st, 2006, 06:41 AM
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I decide against ignoring the DDc and pretending Feb 9th was not approaching, then I decided that maybe the best therapy is to just wish them well and read the birth stories and just be happy for them...being sad and jealous and depressed won't get my any closer to closure...so here's to being supportive.

If it gets too hard I will just go with Plan A and go into denial.....ahhh denial...such a falsely comforting and warm place...

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February 1st, 2006, 11:14 AM
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(((hugs)))) I didn't bother reading for Dec. I wasn't very close to anyone in that DDC. I might read for March tho...
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February 1st, 2006, 11:38 AM
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I check in on my DDC...it's depressing, but I can't believe how excited I am for these women who are SO CLOSE to getting to hold their babies for the first time. I wish them nothing but happiness and realize that I'm truly happy for them. I wouldn't wish that any of them had to trade places with me for one second.

Good for you!!! And if you need to, think of it this way: they're getting to the painful part and THANK GOD you still have time to prepare!!!

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February 1st, 2006, 11:56 AM
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I was with my DDC (January) for 5 months. At first it was hard to check in on them, but when their babies started coming I had to go check it out. I was attached to them and cared. I am suprised to say I don't find it hard to see their little ones. I am truly happy for all of them. Maybe it is because I'm pregnant again.

Hope you can find the happiness too, if not, denial works
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February 1st, 2006, 12:09 PM
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I was never part of any DDC, I found this place 3 months after I lost my bebe. I think you should go day to day on how you feel. I am sorry your DD is approaching fast.
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