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March 31st, 2009, 02:58 PM
AliciaF's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Ugh. I've already done this part of the pregnancy. I've already dealt with the weeks of nausea. It's not fair that I have to do it all over again. I should have a 4 month old, not 3 more months of nausea to deal with.

On a positive note, I have my first US tomorrow. Fingers crossed for a heart beat!

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March 31st, 2009, 03:20 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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Oh honey, I know that feeling!! That's how I felt my entire pregnancy with Erin. It ISN'T fair. I'm sorry you're not feeling well.

I remember talking to my mother, after I lost Cora but before I became pregnant again. DH and I were talking about when we would TTC again, and I said to my mom "I shouldn't have to do this! I should have a baby, not be thinking about trying!"

It's so unfair when you've already "paid the price" to have to go through it all again!
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March 31st, 2009, 04:44 PM
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I totally get how you are feeling too...I've felt it myself many times.

I hope everything goes great for you tomorrow. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you up-date us as soon as you are finished.....I'll be stalking you for an up-date!
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March 31st, 2009, 04:47 PM
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March 31st, 2009, 10:54 PM
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Not long ago I was just telling my husband the same thing. I felt like this pregnancy has dragged on forever that I've been pregnant for a year! I know it isn't true, but it feels that way. It is really unfair and I'm sorry

I hope your U/S went well!
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March 31st, 2009, 11:55 PM
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I hope you're u/s goes well tomorrow hun x

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April 1st, 2009, 02:24 PM
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I hope your U/S went great today. I'm sorry you aren't feeling well and I haven;t started to feel very sick yet this pregnancy, but I'm dreading it. For the same reason as you, plus Roald's death may have been caused by my severe morning sicknessso I'm scared of when it starts again it triggering very painful memories and bring alot more worries. It is unfair for us. I'm sorry...just think of that cute baby you're going to be holding!!!
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April 1st, 2009, 02:59 PM
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I am so sorry you're feeling this way. It sure is hard somedays, thinking that I should be 7 months PG and instead, I'm still in the first trimester. But, I also feel lucky that I am PG again, and things so far are going well. There are no right words to say. But, I hope your days get better and you can enjoy this PG. And, I hope time flies for you so that the day you hold your new little miracle comes quickly!
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April 1st, 2009, 05:16 PM
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HUGS Alicia....hope you're feeling better today and that your u/s went great!

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