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May 29th, 2009, 04:15 PM
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I had to do it. I went down to the storage building I have a brought up some of the baby stuff. I mean I have the space. We have an empty room for the nursery. I just couldn't wait to get some of it cleaned up and start seeing some of it. I know it's way to early but I'm getting ready to go back to work and wont have alot of extra time for cleaning stuff up. Plus I'm already getting big I dont want to do all that while I'm so big. Was I stupid to do this already?

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May 29th, 2009, 07:16 PM
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No I don't think you're stupid at all. You're hopeful. And from the sound of it practical. I think us after loss mommies (especially the after stillbirth mommies who had to take DOWN a nursery) have a really hard time preparing. But are you going to be any less devastated if the worst happens and you lose this baby too? No. You'd probably have guilty for not "bonding" on top of the grief. So you start getting the room ready. A little hope can go a long way.

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May 29th, 2009, 07:48 PM
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I think it's normal, you are trying to prepare for your baby.

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May 29th, 2009, 09:25 PM
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I think it's wonderful you're starting to prepare for your baby! And, it's great you're getting excited.
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