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March 4th, 2005, 08:24 PM
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I have had some people assume that because I am pregnant again that I dont think about my angel in heaven. Kindof like I should be all better now. I can tell you that I think about how old my baby would have been or what he/she would have been doing several times a week. Have any of you had this reaction?
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March 4th, 2005, 10:19 PM
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people are like that all the time,like when i talk about my m/c they think that i'm dwelling on it,like excuse me it my business to dwell on whatever i want,like today i was saying that on the 30th of this month would make a year since i had my m/c.But yeah people will think whatever.

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March 10th, 2005, 07:58 PM
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A lot of people do not know about my mcs. The people on the boards do but not a lot of my real life friends. My losses were early and quite some time ago so most of my friends didn't even know me then.

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March 10th, 2005, 11:14 PM
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I finally told my dad last night that Freja was a twin and he told me a was 'full of Sh*T and shouldn't lie' so I am not telling anyone else except the girls on this board who know already
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March 21st, 2005, 06:00 AM
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Oh yes I get that all the time too. I have to admit I use to be one of them until I had a baby of my own. I guess I just never thought that you felt anything until you started showing and baby started moving, just ignorance I guess. And never having been pregnant. I definitely get it more from people who have never been pregnant. I pretty much ignore it. But I think all the time what that baby may have been like. I like to think this is the same little soul, that something was wrong the first time so she came back in this one. Thats probably silly, but it makes coping easier.
Linda, mommy to Nikolas & Andrew, 5 year old twin boys and Ember Rose, almost 3.
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