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  #1  
March 7th, 2010, 01:45 PM
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My water broke with my very first loss. By this point in the day I was passed out on the bathroom floor, unable to even life my head from the amount of blood I lost. I should have been in the ER but I am stubborn and didn't want them to do a D&C so I suffered alone. I kinda think in a way I didn't even have the fight in me to live that day.

I am not sure I have even begun to heal from that loss. The emotional pain is still as strong as three years ago.

To top off being at my physical loss date, this point in my pregnancy is when my baby died. (11weeks) it took three weeks for my body to let go of the baby.

I am not in a very good place right now. This sucks

I just took a listen in with the doppler and the baby seems to be going strong. I wish I felt as strong.

One day at a time......
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step-mom to: Stephany (24) and Krista (21)
step-grandma to: Wesley, Rosemarie, Scarlett



On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon.
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pictures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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March 7th, 2010, 02:05 PM
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That is the last picture I have of my sweet baby
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (23) Amanda (20) Matthew ( 6) and Daniel (4).... RYAN DAVID 1/4/14 8lbs 10oz 20 3/4 inches!!! My miracle happened!
step-mom to: Stephany (24) and Krista (21)
step-grandma to: Wesley, Rosemarie, Scarlett



On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon.
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pictures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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March 7th, 2010, 02:49 PM
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Oh Bobbie !!!

I can't even think of anything to say to make the day any easier for you...I wish I could....really I do. *sigh*
no one should have to know the grief and pain from losing a baby...it is just not fair...

it has to be a comfort though listening to your baby's hb....and seeing Matthew...
I know our babies can never take the place of ones that were lost....but they do make our lives better...and happier.... one day at a time...
love you sweetie!
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March 7th, 2010, 04:38 PM
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I just wanted to send some Hugs your way. I know how hard it is to go through a loss...and how much these dates mean to us all. Hang in there.
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March 7th, 2010, 05:56 PM
lex1078's Avatar Waiting patiently....
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I wish I had words...
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March 7th, 2010, 09:43 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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I don't know that it ever gets "better." We just get better at ignoring it.

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March 8th, 2010, 02:35 AM
jojo1207's Avatar Ayla 11/8/10
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Aw sweets my heart breaks for you. Lighting a candle for your little angel...

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March 8th, 2010, 03:39 AM
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March 8th, 2010, 08:02 AM
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Words aren't adequate to express the loss we feel. It's not fair we have to go through it. I'll be thinking of you this week and praying you get through it. Being able to hear your baby's heartbeat can be reassuring. We are here for you.
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March 8th, 2010, 09:08 AM
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I'm so sorry, honey

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March 8th, 2010, 09:46 AM
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I hope that you feel better soon~
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