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April 26th, 2010, 12:55 PM
jlynne's Avatar Veteran
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Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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Today is the due date of the baby I miscarried in October. I have been dreading this day coming for a while and I'm just so irritated that nobody else "gets it." I know that even DH doesn't realize that today is the due date and I have been so weepy today. He just thinks that I'm hormonal because of the current pregnancy. I love the baby that I'm carrying so much, and I'm so thankful. I just cry for what should have been a happy day and for all that I've lost. I know you ladies can completely understand what I feel, but I just wish someone would just reach out and say "I'm thinking of you today." No one can take away the loss, but I just wish someone would acknowledge it. Thanks for listening.
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April 26th, 2010, 01:04 PM
*MomofO&Nat*'s Avatar Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I just wanted to say I am very sorry you are feeling so sad, and I totally understand how you feel. My loss date was this past Wednesday, and I was already a mess when I woke up that day thinking about it. On top of that, we had to go for our 18 week u/s and got not so great news about my current baby. It was an awful day, and the worst part was nobody but me seemed to remember or care what significance the date had. So I get it big time! Sending hugs your way!
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Natalie Laura (9/14/10)
Harrison Dean (2/22/13)
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April 26th, 2010, 03:48 PM
baby4me?'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Most people don't really understand the loss you feel from having a miscarriage.... especially men. I was really depressed after each of my miscarriages and it was really hard because DH didn't understand at all. Also, I think sometimes it is uncomfortable for people to talk about it with others. People don't know if you want to talk about it or if it will make you too upset to talk about it. I knew a lady at work who had a miscarriage and she didn't really want to discuss it. So I guess everyone handles it differently and most people don't know what to do and don't really understand.

So sorry you are going through this!

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April 26th, 2010, 04:29 PM
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April 26th, 2010, 05:29 PM
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... it's hard to reach an EDD, while you're pregnant (((Hugs))) WE all 'get it'..

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April 27th, 2010, 03:45 PM
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I can totally understand, and big hugs for you today. I miscarried in October as well and I am not looking forward to June 8th for the same reason. We are all thinking of you today
Cay wife to David mom to Megan 10/01/2010 and April 7/14/2013

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April 27th, 2010, 08:24 PM
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