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October 15th, 2010, 08:49 AM
Dacontay4's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Today is a sad day for me. Infant and pregnancy loss remembrance day, and it would have been my baby girl Kaydence Faith's due date. Just thinking about how different everything is now gives me the shivers. I was up basically all night, missing my babies. But my girls were talking about Kaydence this morning, which I have to say...I'm so glad they can talk about her openly; but my 4 year old Taylor turned to me with this huge smile on her face like she just thought of something amazing, and she says "Mommy! I know why baby Kaydie had to go to heaven!" I asked her why, and she said "Because, God wanted her up there with him, and my brother needed a friend to play with! But then I think they saw you were sad so they asked God to send us baby Johnny." That was earlier this morning, but apparently she has a lot going on right now in that little head of hers...she was eating her breakfast really quietly like she was concentrating, and finally looks at me and says "You know what mommy? I don't think we're sposta be sad today. My brother and sister are happy with Jesus, and they gave us baby Johnny to keep us happy! Today should be a happy day, I think...lets smile!"

I really wish it were that easy to just "be happy" lol. But she does bring up a good point. My babies are with Jesus, and I'm been blessed with another baby. So as hard as it is and as much as I miss Mason and Kaydence, I'm going to try to be happy and make today special.
Wife to David
Mommy to Mady, Connor, Taylor, Grier, Chandler, Evalyn, Bryce and Jude
2 sweet angels born straight into Jesus' arms:
Mason Charles (1/3/05) and Kaydence Faith (4/30/10)

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October 15th, 2010, 10:15 AM
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I love the sweet innocence of children. They see everything so simply. I hope you can find something that will make today peaceful.
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October 15th, 2010, 10:39 AM
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Thank you Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for my beautiful siggy!!

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