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November 5th, 2010, 03:30 PM
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for those who post on a DDC....have you ever posted about your loss/es?

do sometimes find the "worries" on that board minor?

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November 5th, 2010, 04:50 PM
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I have referenced my losses but not discussed them in depth.

I definitely find a lot of the worries minor, but also many of them are not. There have been many losses in the June DDC already, which has been very sad. I feel like I'm offering condolences almost as often as I'm offering congratulations after appointments.

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November 5th, 2010, 05:25 PM
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yes I have mentioned my losses...

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November 5th, 2010, 06:35 PM
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My past DDC had a lot of PAL girls so everyone was very understanding. I kinda felt the minor stuff was a good healthy distraction from how I was feeling
Shen7 - your at that point in the DDC - it will get better as you get out of the first tri/early second trimester!

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November 5th, 2010, 06:38 PM
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I've mentioned my loss, but not gone into detail.
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November 5th, 2010, 06:58 PM
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No. I can't really get into this DDC for some reason.
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November 5th, 2010, 08:38 PM
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I was very open about Cora with both my DDCs. Yes, I found many of the complaints minor, but I think that it's okay to complain a little. The ones who act like gaining 5lbs is the end of the world annoy me, but a little complaining doesn't bother me. Pregnancy is uncomfortable. lol
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November 5th, 2010, 10:55 PM
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Dont think I have. I like to talk about my loss but I think Its not right in the ddc, most of thoses ladies dont understand our pain.
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November 6th, 2010, 08:01 AM
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I talk about my loss in the DDC. I was suprised at how many of the the ladies had also lost babies in the past. Getting through the EDD was really rough and they were amazingly supportive about it.
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