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October 31st, 2011, 11:21 AM
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The closer my angelversary gets the more nervous I am getting. DF doesn't understand, I've had a few people (some that don't even know our past) predict I am going to go into labor Nov 9, I know that baby will come when he/she wants but is it wrong of me to just want this day for the angel. I am super worried about it.
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October 31st, 2011, 11:58 AM
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Of course it's not wrong to want that. Unfortunately, it's not really something you can control. I know it's easier said than done to say that there's no sense worrying about something until it happens, but that's what I would try to do.
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October 31st, 2011, 01:29 PM
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It's hard. As my edd for my angles approached (both in August) it was mixed emotions. I wanted them to not come because those days were for my angels but I kinda wanted them to come so I could have something to celebrate that day. I wouldn't let it stress you. Or try not to .

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October 31st, 2011, 01:41 PM
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I think I would feel the same as you...like Courtney said you can't control it (but you knew that ) but I don't htink it's wrong for you to feel that way either. *hugs*
Mommy to Alexander, Annabella, & always missing our angel!
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October 31st, 2011, 03:12 PM
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I agree with the other ladies. But this is truly out of your control. If it's meant to be that day it will be. Unless your going to cross your legs and lock baby in there

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

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Emergency cerclage put in 12/24

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October 31st, 2011, 09:52 PM
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Lucia was born on the one year anniversary of one of my losses. I was worried that it would bother me, but it actually made me feel at peace once she was here. I feel like my lost baby (and the other that I lost in January) is a part of Lucia. She wouldn't be here without them.
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Lucia Jane, born 10.9.11

Forever missing our angel babies
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November 1st, 2011, 03:53 PM
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It's totally understandable that you feel that way I hope that it all works out in a way that you feel comfortable and at peace with!
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