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December 27th, 2011, 08:33 AM
Mom2JDub's Avatar (formerly junie22)
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I had a dream last night that I started miscarrying. The only other time I ever had a dream like that, I actually miscarried the next day. It totally freaked me out. Now I'm exhausted because I couldn't really go back into a good sleep after that.

I think it's just anxiety because I feel fine. No cramping or spotting or any indication that anything is wrong. Right before we fell asleep, DH told me that I felt cooler than normal. So I think that freaked me out. This morning, I temped to 98.8, so I know everything is fine with my temperature.

Just when I started settling in and feeling good about things, I have a nightmare! Will the fear of another m/c subside?

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December 27th, 2011, 08:44 AM
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I wish I could tell you the fear of a another miscarry goes away. I am 19 weeks almost 20 weeks and I still have fears of another miscarry. We have our big ultrasound tomorrow and I have been having nightmares that the doctor is going to tell us that Baby didn't make it. Pregnancy after a loss is hard. I will tell you it does help by having the ladies on this board to talk to. Sorry you had a bad dream.
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December 27th, 2011, 08:44 AM
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I had a dream I got a BFP and started bleeding 3 days before I got my actual BFP. It was like my body telling me I was pregnant and then my fears took over. Since then I have had multiple baby dreams some scary and some amazing like seeing my little one and holding them! Its all fear because we all get them here.

And for me personally the fear of loosing this baby will never stop. I mean I have never made it past 6 weeks before and here I am 14.5 weeks seen the baby 5 times, listen yo the heartbeat everyday and im still so scared. I think (I say think cause idk for sure) if my 20 week anatomy scan shows nothing wrong I'll feel better... But even then I'll worry about still birth, complications during delivery and SIDS. So maybe for someone else there's a time they'll relax and I'm sure my nerves will calm but they will never go away. For me anyway.

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December 27th, 2011, 09:17 AM
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I've had those dreams even between pregnancies when I'm not pregnant. Having them while pregnant is way worse. (((hugs)))
Mama to an elementary school boy, kindergarten girl, and my miracle toddler girl.
Three 10w losses (11/2010 + 8/2011 + 10/2014)
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December 27th, 2011, 10:08 AM
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For me until I'm actually holding a living breathing child the fear will not subside. I think that the farther along you get the more you might relax but I think it is different for everyone.

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

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December 27th, 2011, 11:37 AM
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