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March 16th, 2012, 07:41 AM
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I am so nervous - I am so in love with this baby already & I am so scared to lose him/her! I am checking the tp everytime I go to the restroom. I wish I could get over my fright!

Thank you Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for my beautiful siggy!!

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March 16th, 2012, 07:52 AM
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I understand. I'm doing the same thing and overanalyzing every little twinge. My most recent betas have helped, but now I'm worrying about my progesterone or blighted ovum! We'll get through this and have our healthy November babies, I just know it!!
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March 16th, 2012, 08:43 AM
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I think it's a normal thing after a loss to not feel comfortable with a pregnancy. It's hard because you know what can happen and you have been there before. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way!
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My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

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March 16th, 2012, 08:57 AM
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I still check tp everytime i go to the bathroom.
The fears are normal, there is no good advice, just take it one day at the time. Don't over-analyze everything, symptoms come and go. As you get further along in the pg it will get better.
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March 16th, 2012, 10:20 AM
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Thanks, ladies! Tanya, I'm glad we're going through this together. We're even due just one day apart!
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March 16th, 2012, 10:46 AM
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I'll be 20 weeks tomorrow and I still check all the time. I don't think this is a fear we ever get over.

❤ Big Thanks to Vicki, trishosaurus, & Shortcake for the great siggies of my kids! ❤
Liz (36) Kev (35)
Tiana (16) Doni (14) Lil Kev (8) Ethan 7/23/12 Lil Roo 10/29/11

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March 16th, 2012, 08:14 PM
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Ah yes the TP terrors, I hated that. I was constantly vigilant about that - I would have nightmares and everything about it, it's really horrible. I am not sure there is any way to get around that kind of anxiety - try to take it one day (and one wipe) at a time.

Missing Angels: Sept '11 - 4 weeks & Nov '11 - 4 weeks 3 days
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