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March 27th, 2012, 12:50 AM
doremi's Avatar Team Blue Mama of Two
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This cervical polyp thing is stealing all of the joy out of this first part of my pregnancy! I worry all the time. At first, I was handling it pretty well, but the constant spotting is just really wearing on me emotionally! It is so hard, even though I know where the bleeding is coming from, not to be freaked out that something is going wrong with the pregnancy. My OB had said she wanted to wait until the end of my 1st trimester to remove it, because that was safest for baby. I see her the beginning of next week, and I'm hoping she will either choose to remove it then (I'll be 10W2D, so not quite at the end of the first trimester), or will at LEAST schedule a date to do it. I'm freaked out about having the procedure done, but also am just ready for this spotting to stop! On top of it all, DH is refusing to DTD until the polyp is removed because we were told it could cause more bleeding if we had sex. I haven't had any action since the second week in February when we conceived! I'm DYING!!!!!! Thanks for listening to my sob story... I just needed a good vent.
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March 27th, 2012, 04:42 AM
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I don't know what a cervical polyp is, but hopefully you can get rid of it soon. You can think of your OB as the mafia and buy little tiny cement shoes for it and throw it in a river somewhere.
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March 27th, 2012, 06:44 AM
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I hope you get your polyp removal scheduled soon! It'd wear on me, too.

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March 27th, 2012, 07:40 AM
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I'm sorry the bleeding is causing you worry. I feel you on the DTD thing. My hubby and I have DTD maybe 5 times this whole pregnancy. Right now I am on complete pelvic rest too, so no even enjoying myself. *sigh*

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March 27th, 2012, 08:48 AM
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I hope they will remove the polyp as soon as they can. About DTD, don't feel bad, DH and I haven't since this baby was conceived in NOV!!!!!!

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March 27th, 2012, 11:56 AM
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that they can take it out soon for you hun. I know it's got to be really hard hun.

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

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March 27th, 2012, 12:35 PM
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I think your hubby is trying to do the right thing by waiting til the end of the first trimester. I held off DTD too because of my fear of miscarriage/bleeding - even still I sometimes feel weird about it.

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March 27th, 2012, 06:01 PM
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Ugh... I'm sorry you're dealing with this Sarah. I don't blame you for being done with the spotting! Hopefully they'll be able to get that polyp out and you'll have a nice, uneventful rest of your pregnancy... And I feel you on DTD! I don't have a lot of desire right now, with all the nausea, but I'm pretty sure I'd be jumping out of my skin if I went that long and I KNOW DH would be!!

Hang in there!!

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March 28th, 2012, 09:04 AM
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I hope they can remove it soon and the bleeding stops ASAP!

As for DTD, we haven't been doing it that much either, right now it's because I am just not feeling it all of a sudden, it's not comfortable for me, so not too enjoyable, even if I am in the mood...I hope you can get some action soon though
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March 28th, 2012, 10:13 AM
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So sorry it is causing you extra worry. I know my DH and I don't DTD while pregnant because I spot more and we just don't want the added worry. Keep us posted on what your OB decides.

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