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July 13th, 2006, 05:52 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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Since I found out I was pregnant all I've wanted to do is cry. I've already convinced myself that I'm going to lose this baby...pls tell me that this is normal and that I'll get over this fear.
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July 14th, 2006, 09:29 AM
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Hi Wildflower,

This is normal you are working yourself up you will be ok. Is your Dr checking your levels I find this has helped me. I know exactly how you feel. Maybe we can support each other I am about 3 weeks pregnant of course they are not sure I never got a period after my miscarriage. As you can see I don't even have a ticker up yet because I am so scared. We can try and stay positive together.

Wishing you Well Tammy

To the love of my life
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July 14th, 2006, 09:43 AM
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Aww....I hear ya!! It's so hard to stop guarding your heart and let yourself become vulnerable again. I had 2 miscarriages before I got pregnant with my daughter (our first child) so by that point I was convinced that I'd never carry a baby to term. So I literally missed out on the first half of my pregnancy because I just didn't want to let myself get excited and to fall in love with this precious little baby with the possibility that I may lose it. I really regret that, now.

But you're definately normal feeling this way. It's so hard. ((HUGS))
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July 15th, 2006, 10:22 AM
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I'm with Bryn. I missed out on so much of this pregnancy because I convinced myself that it would end like the others. And really, I'm still doing it. I'm getting better, though, and actually planning for when it's here...about time, since that's just 7 weeks away!

We can all tell you to try not to worry, but we all also know that you will, anyway. Still, I hope that you're able to find a way to be vigilant, but enjoy every little second so that you don't get to the end and think, "Where did all that happy time go?!"

I still cry. I'm still sure that something is going to happen. But ultimately, I know how very lucky I am to get to experience this at all and I try so hard to focus on the things that are going well...which, really, is most of it! I hope that you're able to do this and start early!

Good luck and congrats!

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July 18th, 2006, 06:29 PM
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Thanks for the replies, I was feeling so bad because for my first two pregnancies I had been so excited and for this one...it's not that I'm not excited but it's just different.
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