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June 22nd, 2012, 03:48 PM
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I feel like I am going to go into my u/s in 5 days and see another dead baby inside me. I have felt all day that my arthritis is coming back which was something that happened when my pregnancy ended last time before I knew it. Also, yesterday I felt so pregnant and today I don't. I had sex with my husband last night and have had brown spotting all day today on and off which is what made me hold off from sex for a good week last time. That time the spotting didn't stop for days though always brown/black but it also included a stringy looking black clot. I had the same thing with my DS and he is happy and healthy but it is just that brown spotting is what started the last m/c too. I have yet to call my dr about any of this. I just can't. I'm sure I am being paranoid but I hate this. I am currently crampy after a somewhat difficult BM and that caused brown spotting. I dunno what to do. I think I am just going to wait till my u/s and see what happens. At least my husband will be there this time if it is bad news.

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June 22nd, 2012, 04:32 PM
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I psych myself into thinking my baby is gone before every scan. I hope that you are just as wrong as I always am.

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June 22nd, 2012, 04:34 PM
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u/s suck after miscarriages. We can all relate about being scared. Hugs
Katrina, mom to 7 wonderful children on earth, and 4 guardian angels in heaven.

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June 22nd, 2012, 05:17 PM
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I get really scared before every u/s too

I'll be praying that everything goes perfectly at your scan!

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June 22nd, 2012, 07:04 PM
LisaG825's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I get scared and freak out over all my symptoms and u/s. It is hard not to freak out. I hope the spotting stops very soon for you. I have had spotting and bleeding with all 3 of my pregnancies. My first one I m/c at almost 16 weeks, had my rainbow baby, and am currently 10 weeks pregnant. I am now in the waiting game all over again and worrying, etc.

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June 24th, 2012, 03:58 PM
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Every ultrasound I had i'd get scared too thinking something would be wrong. Praying that there is a very healthy little sticky bean in there.

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June 25th, 2012, 06:58 AM
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The days/hours leading up to ultrasounds are so hard after a loss. You want to be excited, but dread is there instead.

Hoping you see a beautiful little baby with a perfect little heartbeat.
Mama to an elementary school boy, kindergarten girl, and my miracle toddler girl.
Three 10w losses (11/2010 + 8/2011 + 10/2014)
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