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October 23rd, 2012, 11:53 PM
softbreeze's Avatar Super Mommy
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Hi ladies! I am currently in the June ddc but I am a complete mess. My story- lost first two pregnancies first tri as missed miscarriages. Had a healthy dd, pregnant again lost baby at 16 weeks for no reason. Had seen baby four times on US last one being just a week prior to loss. Drs all kept saying how rare a loss like that was. Had a rainbow dd. mow pregnant again, saw heartbeat last week at US dating baby at 6w1d. And was told everything Looks great. But I am scared s*#^less and can't seem to stop it. I feel like I have this pattern of loosing every other pregnancy which is completely irrational. And even after seeing beans hb I'm still crazy. I have very few symptoms this time which is not the norm for me and dr tells me to enjoy it especially since its going to be our last- but that's the problem, I cant enjoy it I'm just a crazy mess. My dr said she will send me for another us to cease my worries that baby is still fine, but I don't know what week to go. I don't want to go to early because ill have a lot of wedks afterwards to keep on worrying or do I go later and worry for the next month. Ahhh I'm thinking officially the crazy hormonal gal!!!
Thanks for listening ladies, I do feel better just having said it all outloud to ladies who get it.
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October 24th, 2012, 05:33 AM
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Hey! Glad to see you over here too. I totally get your fears. Do you own a Doppler? Maybe do the early US and then borrow or get a Doppler to use at home. We can make it through this!
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October 24th, 2012, 08:04 AM
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I second the doppler! It helped me get through the crazy Congrats on the beanie!
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October 24th, 2012, 08:28 AM
melissalaw's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Congratulations on your pregnancy!! I'm so sorry about your losses. I had a missed mc also so the pregnancy after my loss was very difficult. Hopefully we can help get you through this hard time of the pregnancy and you can start to enjoy it. I agree that a doppler would be a great thing for you to have. It really helped ease my fears when I could just check on Jacob and listen to his heartbeat.

We are here for you if you need us.

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October 25th, 2012, 05:36 PM
martilynne's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Welcome and congrats! I second the doppler idea, mine has been a life saver.

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