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November 7th, 2012, 05:22 PM
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Well guys my husbands aunt died last night so he is going to fly to NYC on Friday for the funeral for 5 days. He is bringing Ava becaus his NYC family have never met her before and would really like to meet her. (also were hoping she will bring them a little brightness in this dark time). We can't afford both of us to go.

Well here's the dumb question... Ava won't forget me right? I mean she's only 5 months old and I'm scared when she gets back she's not going to know who I am! I'm already having a hard time knowing ill be away from her for 5 days but her not wanting me when she gets back would be even more terrible!

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November 7th, 2012, 08:14 PM
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She will dedinatly not forget you! 5 days will feel like a long time but after meeting so many new people she will be so happy to have her mommy snuggle her. I promise!
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November 7th, 2012, 09:22 PM
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nope she wont forget mommy... 5 days might seem like a life time,, but it will go by fast

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November 8th, 2012, 04:57 AM
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It's not a dumb question and she will absolutely not forget you.
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November 8th, 2012, 05:57 AM
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Oh my gosh no. You are mommy just your smell alone she will know who you are.
But I understand how you feel 5 days would feel like forever being away from Bryson. my 4yr old on the other hand needs a vaca from mommy.... or the other way around..lol

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November 8th, 2012, 07:04 AM
melissalaw's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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No she will not forget you. You are mommy!!! I hope those 5 days pass really quickly for you.

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November 8th, 2012, 11:13 AM
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It's not a dumb question! Moms are supposed to worry about stuff like that. And like the others said, she will NOT even remotely forget you.

My cousin, who has some major problems, had her daughter taken from her at 9 months old. She did not see or have contact with her for over 4 months while she was having some rehab and getting herself together. Her daughter was living with her bio father, whom she had not met before 9 months old. When my cousin saw her daughter for the first time in four months, he daughter would not leave her side...cuddled right up to her and even cried when she had to leave. FOUR MONTHS!

Babies know mom, even when major things happen to keep them apart.
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November 8th, 2012, 12:21 PM
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She will not forget you! But she may be a little more clingy to daddy when she first gets back. Don't let that hurt your feelings if it happens. She'll fall right back into routine quickly.

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