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January 26th, 2013, 06:49 AM
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I haven't been coming around the boards too much lately. Every time I sign in, I read more sad stories, it breaks my heart. I'm 7w1d today and I just read someone on the Sept DDC that lost at exactly this time. How can I ever believe that this pregnancy will be ok when so many other women are having such a hard time?

When I'm not on the boards, I feel alot better about this pregnancy. So I think I'm going to take a break from posting but most importantly READING. I hope no one is offended.

My best wishes for healthy babies for all you wonderful ladies. Take Care
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January 26th, 2013, 11:58 AM
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I understand. I hate that part of being in a new ddc...all the losses. It's so sad. *hugs* wishing you the best

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January 26th, 2013, 12:09 PM
EverydayJoy's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Totally understand! You do what is best for your peace of mind. I wish you well and feel free to post if you feel like it!

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January 26th, 2013, 02:56 PM
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I completly understand. Take as long as you need. Feel free to check in if you think of it. Just relax and enjoy your growing baby!
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January 26th, 2013, 03:46 PM
sweet.hun's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I've been there too. It's hard to see the losses. I honestly had to just avoid those threads altogether with this pregnancy...although in the end I told myself that I was going to be optimistic and not stress about anything that wasn't in my control. That helped me out a lot. That and baths! Take time to enjoy your pregnancy! And if that means stepping away from the boards, then do it. Sending sticky dust your way!
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January 28th, 2013, 07:12 AM
melissalaw's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I completely understand. That was very hard for me during my pregnancy after my loss. Everytime I read I about someone else having a loss I started worrying about my little guy. I hope you have a great pregnancy and we will be here for you if you need us.

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January 29th, 2013, 11:16 AM
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I think we all understand needing a break, take your time. I hope you will come back to us and give us updates from time to time, when you are comfortable.
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