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November 18th, 2006, 12:26 PM
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Got second #s back this morning. Theyre going down. So at this point I'm just pissed. Its easier to feel hatred in your heart than the pain this brings... I think. So did you all wait for the 3 months or start back right away? I don't want to wait. I had already told my sons I was going to have a baby (they've begged me to have another for the last year) so I'm hoping they wont think much about it for a while and I can just pick back up and not have to tell them I lost another one. thats too hard for a 6 and 7 year old to handle. I told them it took along time for the baby to be ready anyway. Please respond!

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November 18th, 2006, 12:34 PM
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i'm so sorry hun - take good care of yourself okay?

After my m/c (this day, last year!) we started TTC straight away again, and were lucky enough to get pregnant on our 3rd post m/c cycle

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November 18th, 2006, 12:41 PM
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I am so sorry. We had to wait to ttc again 3 cycles. We got pg the 5th cycle. Only your Dr. can tell you how long you should wait if at all.
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November 18th, 2006, 06:11 PM
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I'm so sorry. I starting ttc right away, I got pregnant at my first o afterwards--about 7 weeks after. My dr said since I was under 8 weeks that I didn't have to wait to start trying again.
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November 18th, 2006, 08:00 PM
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I'm sorry to hear your news. Our dr said to wait 3 months, but after two mcs in six months I decided I didn't care what they said, it made me feel worse to wait, so we only waited for the first af, and then I got pg on the first try - so far, so good.
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November 19th, 2006, 01:21 PM
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I am so sorry hun. I did wait with each of mine - at least 3 cycles. I am not sure it makes much difference if any though.
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November 19th, 2006, 11:41 PM
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I am sooo Sorry, I know there is a lot of pain involved in this. I hope that you will not have these problems again. We did not wait any certain time before TTC. We just let nature take its course.
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November 20th, 2006, 08:50 AM
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I am truely sorry for what happened, you are in my prayers! We didnt wait after ours, and got pregnant actually within 2 weeks and everything is fine.
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November 20th, 2006, 01:54 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have had two misscarriages and my doctor told me I could start ttc straight away however after the first misscarriage it took 5 months to get my BFp and after the second misscarriage it took 7 and a half months to get my BFP.

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November 20th, 2006, 02:13 PM
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I'm so very sorry.
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