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November 30th, 2006, 03:52 PM
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I'm sure you all saw the mom who lost her baby in the December DDC. I can't even read her post. It makes me cry. I feel so bad for her and it also brings up all the pain of my loss. I feel horrible I can't even read the story to lend my support. I was ok about it before I had Sadie now I just can't. I am still so afraid something will happen to Sadie too, I wake up and just watch her sleep at night.

Not really expecting anyone to respond, just getting my feelings out I guess....
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November 30th, 2006, 08:35 PM
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Well, I clicked on it to see if it was someone I knew. I dont know her. I mentioned it to Matt and he got really pissed at me for even reading it...

I'm very paranoid with Leo. Maybe not outwardly. But in my mind I'm always thinking 'what if?' and worrying something will happen to him. I honestly don't know how helpful I could be to someone going thru a loss at this time.

I totally understand where you are coming from though...

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November 30th, 2006, 09:29 PM
4iris's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I just read it and it broke my heart. So very sad...
Do not sorrow; the joy of the Lord is your strength." Neh. 8:10
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November 30th, 2006, 09:46 PM
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And this is why I was a nervouse wreck my entire pregnancy! Eventhough my m/c was at 11 weeks, I know so many other women who had tragedy strike a lot later than that- there never is a safe point in pregnancy because you never know what can happen. Man, I will squeeze Ethan and Leah extra tight tonight and say a prayer for Kayleigh and her son. What a sad story, I am in tears just thinking about her pain...
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December 1st, 2006, 12:02 PM
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I read the post from the December DDC and I couldn't even reply. I just cried. Then last night when I told DH about it he told me that he didn't want to say anything to me when I was still pregnant but recently a couple we know lost their baby just minutes after birth. I feel like it's a miracle that we have a healthy baby.

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December 1st, 2006, 02:32 PM
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I understand where you are coming from, 100% of the way...... I'm still so scared that something is going to happen to Gaby...

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December 1st, 2006, 02:33 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I didn't know about it, and I wrote her a pm. I don't know, I hate that anyone has to go through this, but I feel like her story was so similar to mine...I had to say something to her. To let her know that there is someone else out there like her, and who knows how she feels.

Poor woman. It makes me cry just thinking about it, because I know that pain. ugh.
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December 3rd, 2006, 01:42 PM
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I read the post in the December DDC and I cried so much it just broke my heart.

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