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February 28th, 2007, 03:02 PM
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Hello ladies!

Thanks so much for letting me join you even though it has been short lived.

I returned from the OB yesterday with the news that this was definitally NOT a viable pregnancy. She gave me the option of a d & c, cytotec (to induce a m/c) or just to let it happen naturally. I have gone back and forth on the medication, but have decided for now I'll let my body try to handle in on it's own.

I told myself that if this pg didn't take, that I would NOT be trying again. I am truly blessed with three beautiful, wonderful, smart, healthy children and I am not sure I should put myself through this again.

In addition I have had 3 c/s and know that my chances for complications increase after 3. I haven't talked to dh about all of this. I guess we really can't believe that this is happening again. I mean after all we've always seemed to be "fertile Myrtles!" Hah! I think I'll be taking the pill again for awhile and concentrate on life, not babymaking. My fear, because my sister who is 2 years younger is experiencing early menopause, is that I may be also. I may speak with my ob about this before ttc again. If my eggs are no good and old, why put myself through the heartache again!

I truly wish all of you a very uneventful remainder to your pregnancies.

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February 28th, 2007, 04:04 PM
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Oh Jenn, I am so sorry. I know that this pregnancy has been so difficult with so many ups and downs for you - I'm sorry that it ended up this way. I hope that you can find some comfort in that beautiful family of yours... and whatever your decision ends up being just know that we love you here!

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February 28th, 2007, 04:23 PM
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I'm so sorry honey!

I'm sorry you have to deal with this again.
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February 28th, 2007, 07:09 PM
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i'm so sorry to hear this news Jennifer (((hugs)))

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February 28th, 2007, 10:47 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this

I was truly thinking the very best for you and was hoping it would all turn out okay. I'm so sorry. In your heart of hearts, if you and your DH want another little one, I say don't give up. I'm wishing you the very best
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March 1st, 2007, 07:42 AM
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So sorry Jennifer! (((hugs)))
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March 1st, 2007, 08:06 AM
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I'm so very sorry! If you need additional support, please stop by the Recurrent Loss board. The ladies there are wonderful!
Do not sorrow; the joy of the Lord is your strength." Neh. 8:10
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March 1st, 2007, 08:35 AM
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I am so sorry to hear about the news Jenn. I wish you the best in the world for which ever you decide to do with TTC. Lots of Hugs and Prayers hun.

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March 1st, 2007, 08:41 AM
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((HUGS)) im so sorry! if u wanna talk i wil always be around

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March 1st, 2007, 10:11 AM
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Oh hun I am so sorry to hear it didn't work its self out some how. Whatever you do I hope that life gets better for you soon. Lots and lots of hugs.
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