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June 8th, 2007, 05:47 PM
prush02's Avatar Veteran
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Tomorrow will be the two year anniversary of my first son's heaven date. I have re-lived that whole day, every day this week. At night, when I should be sleeping, I think about Jack dying. It is odd how I remember EVERY moment, but I can't remember every moment of his birth or the 5 weeks in between. I am so stressed about this pregnancy, and I want this baby so bad, or I would rather just have Jack back. But I know that is not possible. I just fear my memories of him continue to fade and I do everything to keep them alive. I don't even know if my husband or family realizes it is tomorrow. He is not really a big one on dates... like most men. I'm just hoping to get through tomorrow in one piece.

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June 9th, 2007, 08:49 AM
cymple's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I just wanted you to know that my thoughts are with you today as I'm sure it is a hard one. I know you will never forget Jack - this baby will not replace him, Jack is still your son - this one will just add more to your family as you keep the memories of Jack alive too. Try to do something nice for yourself, say a little prayer to Jack and take care of that new little one that is quickly growing in you! (((hugs))))

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June 9th, 2007, 09:24 AM
baby4me?'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry hon. I am sure today will be hard. Even though DH may not remember what today is... make sure you talk to him. My DH always reminds me that he can't read my mind.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers today.

Amanda & Rob married June 16, 2006

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June 9th, 2007, 04:37 PM
jessjillmama's Avatar ***Staying Positive***
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Location: Coushatta, La
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I am so sorry hun, I hope you made it okay today. Lots and lots of hugs to you.
Wife to Brian since October 2004, Mama too:
Jakob (May 12th 2004- Feb. 24th 2009 Had Joubert Syndrome RIP)
2 Baby beans lost
Ava Sept 14th 2007, Beaux Oct 3rd 2012
* Tubal reversal December 17th 2010

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June 9th, 2007, 06:08 PM
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June 9th, 2007, 08:29 PM
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I'm thinking of you & your family ((hugs))

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