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October 7th, 2005, 06:14 AM
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So I had my first u/s last Friday and everything went great - I was measuring 6 weeks 4 days and we saw the hb and all. I should be relaxed but honestly I got to that same point last time and then m/c'd after seeing the hb. Now I should be 7 weeks 4 days today and my dr appt is next Wednesday and I'm so scared of going through the same thing again. I guess I'm scared because I was hoping by now I'd feel really pregnant but I just don't. 99% of the time I feel exactly like myself and maybe 1% of the time I feel queezy and whatnot but sometimes I wonder if I'm making myself feel that way. After 2 m/c's - I can't imagine going through another one and I just want everything to be okay so badly. I'm just really scared and I think I'm starting to drive my DH nuts with my worrying. I try to say everything will be fine but I can't convince myself of that. I'm trying to relax until next Wednesday but its so hard. I wish I was doubled over the toilet throwing up so I'd feel better (I know it sounds stupid to wish for!) anyway I just needed to vent I guess. Thanks for reading if you got this far!

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October 7th, 2005, 07:33 AM
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I can totally relate! I just wish I could fast forward this pregnancy by a couple of months.
Me: 38
DH: 43
Katie: born June 4, 2001
Carleigh: born June 14, 2006
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October 7th, 2005, 02:20 PM
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I totally can relate. I'm at 5 weeks now & miscarried at 5 weeks in July. I won't be happy until this baby is born

With my 1st daughter, I did IVF and I remember holding my breath the entire pregnancy. I'm sure I'll do the same with this one if I get the chance.

Hang in there & think good thoughts. That's all we can do

My 2 miracles: Lucinda & Noah
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October 7th, 2005, 08:03 PM
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I know what you mean. My heart goes out to you!

I hope you have a healthy & happy 9 months!

~ HOST to ~FortySomething {Plus} Mommies~

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October 8th, 2005, 05:38 PM
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Hey Hillary! I wanted to wish you the best of luck at your appointment on Wednesday! Only a few more days.... and hopefully they'll be able to put some of your fears to rest (at least until your next appt

I too wish that I could fastforward your pregnancy a couple of months as well. It's easy to just tell you to relax, but I know that's much easier said than done. One day at a time is the best way I think....

Hope you had a great weekend!
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