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July 13th, 2010, 03:33 PM
SuperMartianRobotMom6's Avatar Proud Mama & Happy Wife
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My heart is completely aching for a child, and month by month I have to wait and wait..

And the 2 times Ive been pregnant ive lost both my children

Im so sick of it

All I want is a child, and it kills me that I wait and wait to get a bfp

Only to get a bfn a few weeks later

Im slowly dieing inside and all I can think about is how badly I want this

And all my friends comments, like
"Oh when are you popping a kid out."
"So are you guys still trying, are you trying at all?"

Im very aware that Ive had two miscarriages.... The constant bringing it up and talking about childbearing doesnt help...

Ugggh Im just so sick of waiting,

And although Im happy for my mom, it hurts that shes pregnant again...
And Im s till waiting for one friggin pregnancy to stick.


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July 14th, 2010, 05:59 AM
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I'm so sorry you're feeling so frustrated. TTC is just so hard and is probably the most heartbreaking thing to go through. All the waiting drives you crazy, the waiting to O, the waiting for a BFP, just waiting for your baby to come.

I know it will happen for you, honey. Your time is just around the corner, and we will all be there to cheer for you and share in your joy when it arrives x x x

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July 14th, 2010, 11:04 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I know that it hurts when people constantly bring it up. My Aunt Michelle went through the same thing, she had a miscarriage but had to continue to carry the baby, a year or so later she lost another baby and had given up all hope and nearly lost her faith. She now has two beautiful little girls and believes that all things will come with time. I hope that you get the BFP when the time is right for you.

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July 18th, 2010, 10:49 AM
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You need to be resilient. I have a friend who has had 14 miscarriages, and look at her now. She has two beautiful daughters. Don't give up. A lot of others have experienced the same, if not worse, heartaches. You will have your little one soon.

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July 19th, 2010, 04:02 PM
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I hear ya! Don't you just LOVE the people who say, Oh just don't think about it and it will happen. HELLO? It is ALL we think about. After my third IUI, I just got a negative.
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