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September 25th, 2009, 09:08 PM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 932
I Know I shouldnt complain since he's out making money..but why does 15days drag on soooo long..SO works the oil rigs ...im grateful because he hasnt worked in the past 6months...but now its hard to get used to him leaving again.
I just had to vent....none of my friends understand and always tell me well atleast he is working...but expect me to be their shoulder when their DH or SO goes away for 2days.
Its just hard...but only 7 more sleeps till he is home for a week..YAY

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September 25th, 2009, 09:54 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 3,090
Only 7 more days... I can't think of anything to say that might get your mind off it. Your ticker says 10 months till your wedding day.. is there anything you have been putting off that might take your mind off your so being gone for the next few days? Maybe take the time planning a special date or something for when he's home? I hope the next week goes by quickly for you!

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September 26th, 2009, 10:57 AM
Kalia20's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: ontario canada
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Its hard. We were forced apart off and on for about three months. Its not easy. And thats always when others are complaining about how much they miss their SO, even if its only for 8hrs, or overnight. Its like, yeah, you're *****ing at the wrong person. Shut up. But dont actually SAY that, but want to. Ugh.

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September 26th, 2009, 11:20 AM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 932
i so know what u mean when u say u want to just say shut-up! i have that feeling all the time.
I have been trying to do things...like im planning my wedding..we have the place where we are getting married booked, ive picked my theme and colors and all that stuff. But when i start looking for songs..i miss him more LOL.
I bake ALOT and try and do things with my daughter..like tonight we are going to the movies to see cloudy with a chance of meatballs. And we go shopping...but it just feels like days drag on. We will get back into the routine again and when breakup rolls around in may i will be ready to strangle him by the end of june lol.

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September 27th, 2009, 08:04 AM
2pinks&ablue's Avatar Chantelle
Join Date: May 2007
Location: NB, Canada
Posts: 36,142
I'm sorry, I know it must be so hard

DH was offerred a job just a couple of days ago where he works two weeks on and two weeks off.. it's good money but it's across the country. They would fly him back and forth every two weeks. But we haven't decided yet for this very reason..
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September 27th, 2009, 08:26 PM
blondie-lox's Avatar Do NOT feed the Troll
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: ON, Canada
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Hugs hunny. I'm sorry you're having a rough time. I would feel the same way, it must be rough.

I'm glad you're trying to stay busy. I hope the next 7 days go quickly for you.

How was the movie with your daughter? I want to take mine this week to that movie.

Huge thanks to *Kiliki* for the FANTABULOUS new siggy!!
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September 27th, 2009, 08:50 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Canada
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I hope the next 7 days go by fast. My dh went back to school 2 years ago for 10 months but he was home on the weekends and I found the constant switch in routines hard and I missed him so I imagine extended periods would be rough. My dh goes away again in nov for 2 months and I am already dreading it. My dh has also talked about working away for the money but we haven't decided yet.

Owen, Avery, Samantha and forever missing Jake born still 08/01/99.

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September 27th, 2009, 09:22 PM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2009
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I have to admit..the money is good but i dunno ..id rather be a family then have money..u know what I mean?
Last night we had a rough night on the phone, and he was ready to just leave and come home because it is hard on him when im having a bad day and he cant just hug me. But we talked it over and he's staying...he got good news today and thier next hole they are drilling will only be 45mins from here.
and to think we would have been 10mins away from where he is going if we didnt move lol.

Cloudy with a chance of meatballs was excellent!! it was hilarious..you should go see it!

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September 28th, 2009, 08:32 AM
JMTSMOMMA's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Manitoba,Canada
Posts: 7,275
Aw hun! Big hugs! You are one tough Momma. I hope the time goes by fast until you get to love him up again!

~Sometimes the days seem long, but the years are so very short.~

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