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September 2nd, 2006, 11:15 AM
chelseamb's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Well I had a coffee date! One of the guys from Eharmony and i had been talking for a few days. hes very nice and makes me laugh! We have alot in common and had spent 7 hours on the phone thursday night!

So he brought me a "decaf" coffee last night and we talked and he stayed for an hour. we sat on my porch and talked.

he kissed me goodnight!!!

So i know not to get my hopes to high, but i like him. hes great and i havent laughed like that in a VERY long time... I feel like it was missing hardcore or something. I have felt so carefree the past couple days, cause i beleive the laughter heals the soul!

So, lets see how this pans out. The other guy is really nice but i found out some stuff that made me a little iffy, like he was on propbation for aggrivated assault and he was doing community service. he cant drive for reckless driving charge! In my eyes hes still to young, i mean all those things are what guys i knew in high school were doing cause they thought it was" cool"

Now someone in my DDC asked how i coud be ready to date again, and so i dont have to answer that ? here i will post my reply to that here as well lol

Well this was a very low key date caus eim not ready to fully fling myself into it yet. however i KNOW i will get lonely eventually, and i figure if i have someone in my life, even as a friend to start that its a good thing. Since i have been talking to these people, it has taken my mind of steve and missing me so much, and as my aunt predicted, i am seeing that there ARE good guys out there, so its making it easier to move past the really hard phase!

im not feeling up to sex or anything of that nature just yet, i am still really scared of men. with having a bad track record with men leaving me im kinda paranoid of moving to the next step with anyone, with the fear of being hurt again!

so i take this slowly... its the best way to take it.. but the kiss was nice

Thank you to Vicki.. For my amazing Siggy

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September 2nd, 2006, 11:49 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Orillia,Ontario,Canada
Posts: 18,319

I met my fiance when Marissa was just 6 weeks old. my ex is a turd and made life hell. my fiance was amazing.. that first day was like you described.. I could actually laugh I hadnt in months.

you sound like you are going about it right... taking it slowly!
good luck hun!
Our 3rd baby GIRL coming in August ♥

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September 2nd, 2006, 02:11 PM
chelseamb's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Alberta, Canada
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I hate the dating thing lol. so many questions... being nervos... humming blood.. its all good but bad lol.

Thank you to Vicki.. For my amazing Siggy

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September 2nd, 2006, 04:24 PM
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Location: Ontario
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aweesome! Nothing you are doing is wrong. I just recently broke up with my daughters father. It still hurts, but going out and doing things helps a lot. I havent been on dates, but social gatherings in small numbers, which are so fun. You will learn to trust men again, when? I cant tell you, I dont trust them myself either

oh and that other guy sounded sketchy, i wouldnt bother with him
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