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March 5th, 2011, 06:24 PM
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Ugh... so I'm totally getting my hopes up. My chart is doing this really weird level thing... which it never does... and for a few days I've been having intermitent nausea... but I think I've finally figured out that it happens after 5... It's soo hard not to get my hopes up.. especially when we didn't DTD at great times this month.. ugh!!! How do you all do this? I can't stand the wait, and I still have 4 more days to go!
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March 5th, 2011, 07:36 PM
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It is really difficult to not get your hopes up, its just part of this process i guess. you learn to overcome the disappointment if nothing happens, and you know that all you have left really, is to just move on and try again. Its difficult but we've all been there... Im hopeful this month, we bd'd right around my O date and my doc confirmed ovulation so i am gonna be disappointed if i get a BFN this month but i know i will not stop trying.. hang in there... 2ww is always hard!

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March 6th, 2011, 07:35 AM
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Honestly, the only way I found to not worry, was through time & alot of failed months.
You can only take so much of getting your hopes up, to have them crushed, before you realize worrying & stressing does NO good. Breathe & let it be, is my "live by" quote in the 2WW.

Eventually, you will learn to relaxxxx!
People say that's when it happens!

Good luck, girl! I hope this is your month!!!!
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March 6th, 2011, 09:30 AM
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Well I did some breathing and relaxing last night... Enjoyed a good movie after work... and yah... my temp started its normal decent today... So I'm definitely off my "getting my hopes up" kick.. lol... This whole finally trying thing is gonna kick my butt... In my head I know I probably won't be able to do this naturally... but I guess in my heart I keep hoping that it'll happen... lol....

It will be a fun ride with you ladies until the fall!!! Lol... I think that's when we've decided to get MA.

Thanks for the support girls!
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March 6th, 2011, 10:59 AM
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Well, you never know!

I'm on MA now (And have been for 2.5yrs) but I have gotten pregnant TWICE naturally, so anything can happen!

I hope it happens for you, girl!
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March 6th, 2011, 02:12 PM
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shoot, my hopes are still up even though i got a BFN Friday AM... I keep thinking "maybe it was too early to test" I have no cramps, no break-outs (which happens when AF is preparing for her visit), no mood swings..... nothing.
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March 6th, 2011, 07:03 PM
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Well I'm crossing my fingers for everyone!!! I guess you just made a point... no crazy PMS mood swings... but I also don't have any breast tenderness... which I have almost every month before AF... maybe I'm just having a weird month... *fingers crossed* for everyone!!!
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