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View Poll Results: Rate your relationship with your DH/SO.
0 0 0%
1-2 0 0%
3 0 0%
4 0 0%
5 2 14.29%
6 1 7.14%
7 4 28.57%
8 4 28.57%
9 2 14.29%
10 1 7.14%
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July 29th, 2013, 07:18 PM
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July 30th, 2013, 12:11 PM
taterm's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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7. We are perfect in some areas and then the others not so much.

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July 30th, 2013, 12:17 PM
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yes, we have come a long way to make it to a 7. there is work to do but we are at last on the right track.
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July 30th, 2013, 12:48 PM
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I'm not sure how to answer. We have overcome SO much, and in so many ways, things are great. But we have our struggles as well. Add in DH's often crazy work schedule and a couple of kids...I think we're doing pretty well, all things considered, but we are nowhere near perfect.

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July 30th, 2013, 12:55 PM
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I voted 7. Things are really good right now. The best they've been in years. But it's not perfect and we still have things to work on.

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July 30th, 2013, 01:27 PM
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i voted 8. Things are really good.
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July 30th, 2013, 02:00 PM
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I voted 5. Probably because I'm emotional and pregnant. I just don't feel like he's very supportive all the time and we don't communicate well.
stephanie, wife to adam, mommy to rylan, dakota, and baby girl on the way!

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July 30th, 2013, 05:50 PM
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I voted 8. Things are near perfect with 2 tiny details. The first is we yell first, calm down and discuss later. I would like to avoid the yelling. It doesn't happen very often but, still. The second issue is I don't think he always has my back in public situations. I work for the government AND I'm a union rep and some people have a really hard time with those things and I've been attacked a few times by people who don't even know me in public. DH is the peacekeeper type of person and likes to diffuse the situation by stroking THEIR egos to calm things down. He really likes people to get along. The only problem is, I think sometimes people need to be told to go to he** and get off my back in a social situation - call me during business hours and we'll talk, kwim?

Eli Gunnar 1.11.10

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July 31st, 2013, 05:14 PM
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I would say between a 7 & 8. I think we need to spend more quality time together & we could communicate better. I'm just so drained from taking care of the kids that he often comes last
Gina, wife to Joe...mama to Nathan (8), Brady (7) and Chase (3)
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August 2nd, 2013, 03:41 PM
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I say 9

Ofcourse we have our struggles but we love each other even more after! My love for him is huge! And ofcourse he feels the same about me
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August 2nd, 2013, 11:22 PM
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I voted a 5. Things between us are pretty good, but the low mark is because we hardly spend any time together (he works a ton and the 2 kids keep us busy). Also, we co-sleep with Kai, so intimacy is lacking! I know things will go back to normal, but we're both exhausted right now. He worked 118 hours over the last 2 weeks, lol.

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August 7th, 2013, 06:33 PM
caring21's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Ours is a 7 now but it was like 2 last year and a few months ago....... I want it to be a 9 !!

Lindsay & Pascal proud parents to William

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August 20th, 2013, 05:26 AM
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I voted a 9, we definitely aren't perfect.. but I don't think I could ask for anything more.
Mom to Jacob (9), Rylan (3), and Amelia (1)

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