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The "was it planned?" question

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April 29th, 2011, 01:50 AM
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I would hit the roof. After trying for so long, and being so heartbroken month after month, going through some invasive tests, my son being almost 4, if someone suggested that this was unplanned i wouldnt be able to hold my tongue.
My MIL said it was unfortunate it happened in march as december is a bad month for birthdays and dh went mental. she doesnt know we were trying or for how long, but that was the most insensitive thing i have ever heard.

My son was a suprise, and when we'd tell people, we got a look of pity and comments like "aw, i'm sure it will all work out" i felt like punching them in the face. yes it wasnt planned, but its very much wanted.

I dont know why anyone thinks its any of their business. no one is asking them to carry, give birth or provide for the child!!!

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