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August 30th, 2011, 06:38 PM
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Cleveland, Oh
Posts: 14
Hi everyone I'm new here and just looking for some help from people who are going through or have gone through the same thing.

My situation:

I am 24 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years. We've talked about marriage but we are in no rush... But I want a baby very BAD!!! He on the other hand, Doesn't care either way... Were trying the "not trying but not preventing" method. We started asking questions about 2 years ago and my doctor told me that I was fine and to just try keeping track of my period, that was the easy part. The hard part is dealing with the disappointment month after month, This month my period was late... Not just a few days but almost 2 weeks. I was looking up all kinds of baby things on the internet and trying to see how far along I would be if I was pregnant. I was hesitant to take a test. We were both excited that this time might just be it for us. I have never seen him that excited about a late period before and we were finally on the same page. I was supposed to go to take a test today but I couldn't wait anymore so I went yesterday and got a test done at the clinic... It came back negative and the nurse said that it could be wrong and if my period didn't show in the next week or 2 to retest. I was sad but I still had a little hope. Then 4 hours later my period started, I was devastated. I broke the news to him and he was just as sad as I was. Now I feel like God played the worst practical joke ever
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October 24th, 2011, 06:02 PM
Sawyers_Mommy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: North Carolina
Posts: 4,690
Hey I know this was posted 2 months ago but I am new to JustMommies also and was looking through some of the post. I am sorry to hear about the negative test and hope you have had better luck the past two months! Me and my husband have been using the "not trying not preventing" method since June but this month decided to start really trying. I've got about a week before I can test, that being the earliest, but i'm trying to hold out til I see if i'm late. No symptoms yet tho
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January 12th, 2012, 12:51 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
Posts: 8
Hi Sawyers_mommy.

Any luck yet? Not sure when you posted your comment. i only joined today so this is all new to me.

im also trying i was on the pill but wasnt taking it very regularly, been off it completely for 2 months now, hoping it works. 2 months ago i was 2 weeks late, also thought i was preggie but it turned out to just be my hormones being unregular. i had normal month last month and trying again this month, in my fertile week now so im holding thumbs but so scared im going to be disappointed.

P.s @ Crazy Beautiful86 - i hope you have received good news?
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January 24th, 2012, 12:23 PM
Hopolka's Avatar Wife, Mom of 1, Expecting
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: IA
Posts: 2,316
Hi ladies!

I, too, have recently stopped by BC. Last month I was hopeful we were pregnant but was thoroughly disappointed when my AF came 4-5 days late. My DH actually cried. :/ Though I was also very sad I had to remind myself that it's only been a month or two since I've taken my NR out and I could not be regulated yet. Wish you all the best! Keep me updated .
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