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April 13th, 2012, 09:12 AM
lilemma86's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Ok so a little OT But.... to shorten the long story here is why my MIL is loving with us:

Ok so my DH father passed away about 2 years ago from cancer. She moved in with the SIL (who had triplets that she kept all week). She moved back into her house about 8 months ago and was really not in a good place within her self to stay at the house. So she moved in with us about 3 months ago. It really is not a problem because between our work schedulers we hardly see each other.

Well monday we told the family that we are expecting (only 4 weeksish along). We told them early because of the family compound that we live on they would have figured it out. Anyway well since we told her she calls me everyday asking how i am feeling. I know that she is just caring for me and concerned. And last night she came in and asked again how i was feeling (i was laying on the couch playing with my bird). i guess she thought i was not feeling well.

This is kinda why i don't like telling people about it because they start asking how you feel all the time and if you say you are tired or have a headache they delve into a long explination that it is only going to get worse....blah blah blah. I know this! But cant me being tired just be me being tired and not be pregnancy related!

I actually feel great! I really don't like when people read to much into things you say.

Oh and also last night she asked if my breast were sore. and then preceded to tell me that they were going to get big and i was going to be top heavy thanks for that little tid bit as if i did not already had that idea.......

Sorry but i really do not want to discuss how my breast are feeling with anyone!!!! except maybe the DH!

Sorry this is long and thanks for being an ear!!

Anyone else feeling like people are not looking at them like they are not just a person anymore, that they are just a carrier?

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April 13th, 2012, 09:20 AM
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I understand... I already people coming up to me a rubbing my bloated belly... "Ummmm, get off of me!!!!"

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April 13th, 2012, 09:28 AM
Blcooper32's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I had that problem with my dd but this time when I told everyone I told them to keep their thoughts,comments, and exsperances to themselves unless I ask for it lol guess I must be scary because no one has said a thing to me since unless I ask
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