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April 14th, 2009, 02:56 PM
heathernoel's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Next week's going to mark my 19th week. We aren't sure exactly when he passed away during the 19th week...but I'm holding my breath. My dr. took a look at his pictures, and says that based on his length, he'd guess that he made it to 19 weeks (and the fact that his coloring wasn't bad when he was born)...but something went wrong to keep his weight so low.

I'll have my big u/s on Mom's birthday the week after, so I'm going to keep my eyes on that prize, kwim? I'd rather just skip this part.

I had my first stillborn dream last night about this one...she was a little girl. It was SO real...*shuddering* I know I will get through it with y'all's help, and with some prayers.

But what I wouldn't do to skip it. I just can't lose another one. My arms and heart ache for Marshall...

Ok. Done rambling.
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April 14th, 2009, 03:21 PM
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I can only guess how hard this week is for you. We are all here for you whenever you need us.

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April 14th, 2009, 03:24 PM
BakingMommy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry, Heather. I am only 8 weeks and I am already dreading 24-25 weeks because that is when Roald died (we are also unsure of exactly when) and of course his stillbirth.

I hope time just passes quickly and the Lord keeps you strong through the trying time of being in the same period of when you lost Marshall and also for it being your mother's birthday.

Visit Terry & Roald's Memorial Site!

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April 14th, 2009, 05:39 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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Oh honey. I'll be praying for you that the week will be as easy on you as possible. Those stillbirth dreams are so hard. I started having nightmares every night after I got past Cora's lost date (I'm lucky it was so close to the end or I would have gone completely insane).

Thanks to babydoll213 for the siggy! My kids' blog Cora's blog

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April 14th, 2009, 07:31 PM
lunarmagic's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I really hope this week goes by as quickly as possible for you. I think it's a good idea to keep your eyes on the next step... that seems to be helpful.

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April 14th, 2009, 08:02 PM
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Ramble all you want. I would be (will be!) very scared and nervous, too. We'll help you get through the difficult time

I wish you peace and lots and lots of prayers right now

Thank you to Jaidynsmum for my beautiful siggie!

I'm Barb, Mom to Angel on Earth Julia Rose (7*22*08), her twin brother Angel in Heaven Noah (7*22*08), and rainbow baby Sydney Noelle (12*4*09).

*a special 'thank you' to all the blinkie creators for their talents*
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April 14th, 2009, 08:46 PM
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I am sorry so many things are coming up this week.
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April 15th, 2009, 02:53 AM
claire1979's Avatar mummy to a special angel
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i was a nightmare the week where i lost jessica when i was pregnant with keeley! i just wished i could go to sleep for 9 months and wake up in labour i was that scared! hugs hun

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April 15th, 2009, 01:31 PM
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**hugs** stay strong momma!
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I am a mixture of all that and a bag of chips... IJS

Rest In Peace Jennifer <3

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April 15th, 2009, 02:49 PM
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thinking of you.
b/g twins Logan and Ella
Logan stillborn, loved beyond measure

Journey to Logan video http://smilebox.com/playBlog/4e54597...314d673d3d0d0a
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