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April 21st, 2009, 02:24 PM
littlebeansmommy's Avatar Super Mommy
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My first DS turns two next week. I'm so excited for his birthday....he's becoming quite the little man. I can hear him in his crib making noises and "talking" to his stuffed animals. He is the light of my life. I really think he's the reason I've been able to get through losing my other DS so well. Anyway, whenever we are out, at church, DH's work, or just a store in general, people are always remarking how adorable or cute my DS is. Not that I don't agree with them , but I always find myself thinking about KT. Yes my other son is cute and adorable and a big ball of mischief, that is exactly why I want another child. I know people don't mean anything by it, but for some reason I always cringe when I hear those comments. Don't they understand how much I want another baby because of how my first has turned out so far.... Don't they understand that I'd love to be able to make another handsome/pretty baby.... Don't they know how hard it is for me to stand there and listen to them go on and on about how perfect my first child is when I don't have my other baby there with me for them to ooh and ahh over.

Sorry, no real point to this post....just mumbled, jumbled feelings today.
DS #1:

My precious angel DS#2:

My rainbow DS#3:

My Princess #4:
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April 21st, 2009, 03:11 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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I felt that way when Erin was born, too. Everything Erin did. Now that I have Patrick and he gets all the attention I sort of feel bad for Erin.

Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that you're not the only one who misses your angel when your other child get complimented.

Thanks to babydoll213 for the siggy! My kids' blog Cora's blog

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April 21st, 2009, 03:31 PM
heathernoel's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I feel that too. Reagan is an AWESOME kid...truth be told, she's been my easiest. But I always want people to know I could have had a son that was even easier! But instead, he's the one that makes people's eyes glued to the floor, their voices drop, and makes them spit out "I'm sorry".

my thanks to Claire1979 for the awesome siggy!!
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April 21st, 2009, 04:00 PM
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I used to get the comments, when are you going to have a baby, and that would upset me because of course I had a baby but couldnt show him off. After I had Owen I was told that too, how cute and all that and it would make me sad. Big Hugs to you!

Owen, Avery, Samantha and forever missing Jake born still 08/01/99.

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April 21st, 2009, 04:00 PM
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Owen, Avery, Samantha and forever missing Jake born still 08/01/99.

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