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October 31st, 2009, 09:00 PM
rebeccabaltimore and more's Avatar (rebeccabaltimore)
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Halloween looks like a lot of fun when you have kids. I posted that on my FB, and my friend *****ed about how her son was too young to understand it. My son is dead.

I'm Jewish. We don't even celebrate Halloween, and I'm jealous. I want Ethan here and in a costume.

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October 31st, 2009, 10:50 PM
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aww I understand....do you hand out candy? Just think, next year you'll have 2 little babies to dress up ...It's fun taking kids out, but it's also alot of work....I can't wait for the day when I can just hand out candy in my nice warm house....I'm going to enjoy taking the kids out while I can though...My oldest (she's 10) already wanted to go do her own thing with her friends (we of course said no, she's too young)...Seems like it was just her first Halloween...Time flies.
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November 1st, 2009, 01:54 AM
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Gah, I totally understand Katrina baby would've been coming up to 11 months (had she made it full term) on Halloween tonight and holy wow she would've been SO adorable in a cute little costume. I couldn't stop thinking about a cute little ladybug costume all day yesterday and today and got so sad when I thought of it and just how much we've missed out on this year without her

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November 1st, 2009, 06:45 AM
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I saw your post rebecca, some people are so clueless...they aren't thinking about our losses every day so when we make comments they always think of the superficial meanings....

We had plans to make ds Optimus Prime (a transformer) and we were going to make ds2 Bumblebee, dress him in yellow with black stripe and put cardboard around his stroller to look like a car. Now we are trying to make plans for this baby and ds for next year (because ds keeps talking about his next baby brother) and it is so hard to get excited. Even making plans for next summer like vacation. Its so hard because I am so afraid that this baby won't come home either and we will have once again made plans for nothing.

I have to say though, that you could do so many cute things with twin costumes. You and your babies are continually in my prayers.
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Jamie ~ 7-12-04 ~ fun, crazy, transformer loving tough-guy mama's boy
Joey ~ 4-4-09 ~ born sleeping ~ held under my heart for 40wk1d, in my arms for just 6 short hours but he will be in my heart forever
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November 1st, 2009, 07:41 AM
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I can't even let myself think about dressing up the twins, because like you I am afraid I'll lose this pregnancy too. I'm not afraid of these babies getting diabetic embryopathy like Ethan, my sugars are well controlled, but I'm afraid of miscarriage, afraid that the subchorionic hematoma will cause an abruption, afraid of cord accidents - you name it I'm afraid of it.

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November 1st, 2009, 08:04 AM
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I also had a hard time yesterday, All I was thinking about was what Alyssa would have been for Halloween. I did try to get into the spirit and hand out candy to trick or treaters because I just love seeing all the outfits, but I was constantly thinking about her. I think I would have dressed her up like a butterfly :-)
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November 1st, 2009, 01:15 PM
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yeah hun it is fun, the kids got dressed up and went out, im so sorry our babies r not here to enjoy the day when i took a pic of them in there costumes i did have a tear

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November 1st, 2009, 07:38 PM
SarahBethsMommy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I was thinking that all day. I had my kids to take out... but he was still missing. He would have been SO cute dressed up.

I'll be excited for you while you can't because of the fear. I'm excited to see pictures next year of your twins and Nat's baby too all dressed up in all their halloween glory...

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