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January 22nd, 2010, 07:19 PM
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I never in a million years thought that my post would cause so much drama. I'm so sorry to all of you for what happened. I truly am. It never was my intention to make you guys defend yourself like that. I hope you all can forgive me
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January 22nd, 2010, 07:21 PM
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Why are you apologizing? You didn't do ANYTHING wrong. In fact, even though it caused people to get up in arms about it...you STILL helped. More people are aware. ((hugs))
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January 22nd, 2010, 07:37 PM
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Ditto...I don't think you did anything wrong and you have no reason to apologize
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January 22nd, 2010, 07:50 PM
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I said it on my blog and I'll say it here: I'm proud of you. I'm touched that you would feel like you do about this. It's good to know that I'm not alone in missing Cora.

It's not your fault that they reacted like they did. It's not your fault that they somehow thought it was okay to bring it here.

You didn't deserve the treatment you got.
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January 22nd, 2010, 07:51 PM
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You definitely didn't do anything wrong - I truly commend you for putting your heart on your sleeve and taking up a cause that is so close to our hearts. You did a good thing, and could not have known that it would cause drama and upset. And I know some of the DDCs, like mine, really appreciated the info.
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January 22nd, 2010, 11:30 PM
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You're not the one who should be apologizing. I didn't feel at all like I was defending myself - I think we were all defending the babies who need their moms to protect them.

Don't think about the one DDC who took it badly - think about the hundreds of women in all the other DDCs who learned something. In fact, I was going to PM you and ask you to post your info on the High Risk Board (I'm the host) because I think my members should have the chance to learn something so useful too.
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January 23rd, 2010, 02:45 AM
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ditto all the ladies hun, we are greatful for the support
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January 23rd, 2010, 05:57 AM
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I for one am jealous that little Cora has such a supportive aunt. You are such an awesome example, and thanks to you, hundreds of women will take note of their baby's kicks, and WILL freak when something isn't right. If ONE of them saves their baby from an early loss, then she owes you her thanks.

I am proud of you!
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January 23rd, 2010, 07:54 AM
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Rebecca I think I"m gonna rewrite it to include more stuff so it doesn't confuse as much and then I'll post it in there for you.

Thanks ladies! I really do love this board! I"ve said it before
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January 23rd, 2010, 09:04 AM
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You have absolutely nothing to apologize for.
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January 23rd, 2010, 10:37 AM
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to what all the ladies have said
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January 24th, 2010, 01:03 PM
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Adrienne, DON'T YOU DARE APOLOGIZE! Yes I am shouting at you!! Some people need a reality check, they need to realise that just because you bury your head and don't read about the 'scary stuff' doesn't mean it doesn't, can't or won't happen. If being aware saves just one baby then it was all worth it. xxx
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January 24th, 2010, 01:07 PM
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I missed all the drama when it happened and missed whatever was apparently deleted. But I went and read what you posted and please don't apologize! Someones baby may have been saved by that information! That alone is reason enough for it to have been posted.

*hugs*
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January 24th, 2010, 08:29 PM
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You have nothing to apologize for...we are grateful you posted it and I think it has done a lot of good, and even the ones who were upset, maybe it will help them!!
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January 25th, 2010, 06:50 AM
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