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November 1st, 2011, 07:40 AM
Join Date: Nov 2011
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Hello everyone,
On August 31st this year I delievered my fourth baby, a little girl, on her due date after we lost her. We found out on the 29th at a regular dr. appointment, we heard her heart stop on the doppler. The cause of death was unexplained hidden placental abruption (not found until after delivery). I was told we were both healthy and there was no medical reason for the abruption that it sometimes just happens.

I'm here because I think I just got a very very light BFP, I couldn't even get a picture of it. I'll test again in the morning. But I'm 90% sure I am which is why I tested. Now I just have to hold off a day or two and see for sure. The doc said medically there was no need to worry if we had another baby, which helps...kinda. I'm not sure how I feel, I know I'm excited but so scared, it's so soon and I haven't even gotten AF yet.

Anyway just wanted to say hi
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November 1st, 2011, 09:07 AM
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Hi! I'm very sorry for your loss and hope if you are preggo that you have a H&H 9mths!

Thank you Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for my beautiful siggy!!

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November 1st, 2011, 09:08 AM
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I am sorry to have to welcome you here but this is a great group of ladies and we are here if you need to vent, cry, scream, talk about fears, etc.
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November 1st, 2011, 09:28 AM
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hi and welcome here, so sorry for your loss (())

congrats on the bfp hope it gets darker when you next test. x

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November 1st, 2011, 11:15 AM
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Thanks for the welcomes everyone.

Hope it gets darker too. It's too early for me to say I'm pregnant for sure (even with the faint BFP)just in case it's a chemical pregnancy. I think I'm somewhere between 9-13 DPO, probably closer to the nine so I'm trying not to get to excited because I know there are lots of things that can happen. I only tested because I had a kind of headache that I really have during early pregnancy (with the expection of once or twice and I think those might have been chemical pregnancies but never got a +).
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November 2nd, 2011, 05:37 AM
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Looks like I got a bad test yesterday the three I took this morning with FMU came back BFN.
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:35 PM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. This is a fabulous place to cry, vent, and just get old-fashioned support. I hope that you get your BFP soon.

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