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June 15th, 2007, 07:57 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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I am so confused. Fatherís day is almost here. Last year also, I was so happy, went for shopping, got 2 nice tea-shirts for my DH, one from my DD and the other one was supposed to be from our unborn son. When I woke up on Sunday, June 18th, I had a little spotting. You will not believe how happy I was! I thought I am gonna give my son as a gift to my DH (he always wanted to have one son and one daughter). I made my DD give her dad the t-shirts and he loved them. But nothing happened that day, just mild contractions and instead of becoming strong, they just spaced out. I thought maybe 19th June is the big day. Well, no strong contractions that day either, mind you, I had called my docís office 3 times in the meantime and the doctor on call said you just have to wait, itís ok to wait and there was no need to go to the hospital (looks like he was busy and he said I should go in next day morning for a checkup if nothing happens till then). I just waited and waited to wake up at 4.30am with no movements and with strong contractions. I felt something was wrong but thought it just might be my feelings and baby could be sleeping as I felt him move the previous night while having dinner. Well, we got ready and my hubby wore the t-shirt that was the present from our unborn son and went to the hospital to find out that my feelings were right, no heartbeat. I am feeling so bad as the fatherís day is approaching and I am not in a mood even to make my daughter to do a greeting card for DH. How do I make it through the 20th? Is it ever possible? If my Siddhu was here, I would be celebrating his birthday, my birthday and fatherís day all of them in a BIG way! But now I canít celebrate any of those. I do not know what I should be doing but I am just so sad, I canít help it! Sorry girls, I just wanted to share.
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June 16th, 2007, 01:45 PM
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I am so very sorry. I don't have any words of wisdom for you, except you can only hang in there.
~Jennifer, wife of one, mother of many

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June 20th, 2007, 04:32 PM
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The cards that daddy receives for all his bdays, father's days etc... all include Macy's name.
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