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January 24th, 2008, 02:45 PM
claire1979's Avatar mummy to a special angel
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we found out the other day baby is another girl.....so i thought id pop into town and buy her her first outfit......been putting it off for a few days...anyway i went and bought her a comin home thing i was happy that i had but boy when i got home and had a good look i suddenly felt very upset and started snugglin it into my face i was so emotional for jessica and thinkin that bringin this baby home is a long time off and im strugglin to find the strength to cope.....im missin her more now i have got passed the stage where jessica passed and feelin her kick everyday...

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January 24th, 2008, 03:32 PM
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hun. Well done for buying this little one her first outfit.

I feel for you hun, it's like you'r going through a different type of grieving, you're grieving for the stage of Jessica's pregnancy that you missed. Each kick this little one gives you makes you think of what should have been. It's totally understandable hun, don't beat yourself up over it. You're doing as well as can be expected hun. Just hang on in there, take it a day at a time and before you know it you'll be holding that little one oin your arms with a whole load more tears. But she'll be here hun, in your arms where she belongs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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January 24th, 2008, 10:19 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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I went through this same thing after I brought Erin home. I was SO glad to have Erin home, but at the same time, every coo and grunt and cry was something that I missed out with with Cora.

You'll get through this. It'll take time. Let yourself to miss Jessica. Let yourself grieve.

And well done on buying something!
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