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February 4th, 2008, 12:43 AM
BornAgainRenee's Avatar TTC #6 after 4 losses
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I know its part of the grieving, and I know that I will be grieving for some time to come, but I hate what its doing to me. I have had a headache since I had Gracie, my back hurts my neck hurts. I hate being around people and I wish everyone would quit asking me how Im doing. What do they think? Im jumping for joy? I know they mean well, and I know they care, but come on, I wish they would just try to fathom it for a sec. and then answer the question for themselves. I don't mind the we are praying for you, or your in my thoughts. That doesn't make it so that I have to act something different then I feel. Right now I just want to go to bed and wake up when I am better, and Lord only knows when that will be.
I know that you girls understand what Im saying. Not even my dh understands what Im saying. He is able to just pick up where he left off like it never happened. Man I wish this would just start to get better. We found out that we are getting quite a bit on our taxes, and normally I would be thrilled, but honestly I could care less. It means nothing to me right now. We were going to use that money for stuff for the baby. IM just so lost and alone right now.

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February 4th, 2008, 12:57 AM
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we just found out we are getting close nothing on our taxes and we could use the money soooooo bad. my son was born, dh's hours get cut, we are behing on bills. when it rains it pours. It will get better hun, it has almost been 4 months for me and I have my bad moments. unfortunately, life still has to go on and it is hard to bear.
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Rest In Peace Jennifer <3

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February 4th, 2008, 06:47 AM
claire1979's Avatar mummy to a special angel
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hun its still early days you are still gettin over the birth i was exactly the same with my body....aches and headachy.....be gentle on yourself u will learn to smile again.....just needs time ill be thinkin of u hun x

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March 9th, 2008, 03:04 PM
mommy jenn's Avatar Mega Super Mom2Morgan
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i cannot imagine what you are going threw, i just had a miscarriage and it cannot amount to the pain you are feeling. God has a plan for us and sometimes its just not what we expect... God had a plan for Gracie. I know God only gives us what He knows we can deal with. Thats the hardest part! my heart goes out to you.

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