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December 18th, 2008, 08:18 PM
cam & sami's mom's Avatar Super Mommy
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all of this holliday cheer is about to push me right over the edge. I know that the firsts of everything are hard. It has only been 7 weeks since Cam passed and 11 weeks since my mom passed. I should give myself a break, right? I think it would be easier if I weren't so lonely. DH & I cannot be each other's support right now. Neither of us have anything left to give. My dad is grieving my mom & his grandson, so not much from him either. Samantha is only 5, don't want to burder her. My IRL friends just don't get it. Even if they did, i don't have the words. I can barely get out a sentence without sobbing. It's not getting better, it is getting worse. I need some sleep. Tomorrow will be different day.

Cameron (3-3-99 to 10-30-08)
Samantha (11-15-03)
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December 18th, 2008, 08:59 PM
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*hugs hugs hugs* Sweetheart if you need us we are here. just talk. Tell us whatever you feel. There's no magic words we can say to make you feel better but we ARE here for you.

If you are uncomfortable posting on the open board. PM one of us.

Unfortunately at least in my own walk of grief, it did get worse before it got better. And now there are STILL times it's so so much worse like the world is caving in on me.

Just keep breathing love
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December 19th, 2008, 03:36 PM
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hugs. is there any kind of IRL support group in your area? I am very sorry to hear about Cameron and your mom.

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December 19th, 2008, 10:31 PM
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Many, many hugs to you. If you want to talk at all, please PM me. Like Melissa said above, there are no words....... We are all here for you though. I'll be honest with you, it's still difficult for me around the holidays, especially Christmas. There will always be those special dates that are hard too. We are all here to support and help each other through the difficult times. I'll be praying for you.

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