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October 19th, 2012, 12:56 PM
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The mister and I are getting married next Saturday so I'm really stressin' about it. Last night we were discussing money to pay for all the day of things so I really didn't sleep last night... plus, I didn't want a wedding, it's not "me". Not so much stressed about all the money stuff now since my father called and let me know everything they're contributing for the day of but...
The mister left for his bachelor party today. Since I've found out I'm pregnant we've had, well I've had to change plans. My bachelorette party, instead of being centered around bar hopping and alcohol it now just a dinner thing and a sex toy party. The vintage whiskey I bought myself for the wedding I'm gifting to my father, etc. The group that are going is a bunch of rogues, honestly and I don't trust any of them. At their bachelor parties I was told they engaged in sexual acts while at strip clubs. Well... they're going to a particularly sleezy place for the misters and I hate to say that I'm not happy.
My last pregnancy the mister and I were 5 hours apart and he kept me stressed and in tears the whole time because he was out every night drinking and not calling me and being disrespectful. I WILL NOT go through any of that again... but apparently I am tonight.
He's had a week to speak up and be respectful and change what he's doing, but he chose not to.
I am so stressed and upset right now... I'm pretty much to the point of calling the whole thing off and leaving and moving where my parents are.

Sorry guys, had to get it out.
12/24/08 - Lilyan Shiloh

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October 19th, 2012, 01:30 PM
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I'm very sorry he was so disrespectful to you. Do you really think he would be unfaithful? Or do you think it's the pregnancy hormones talking? My husband didn't have any strippers at his bachelor party but he has been to bachelor parties that have and I have never thought anything would happen. I didn't particularly like it but I trusted him. I'm sorry you have to be so worried on top of being sick.
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October 19th, 2012, 02:19 PM
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I would be very upset and I would not want my future husband going a place like that.
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October 19th, 2012, 02:38 PM
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Yeah, I think I would put my foot down on that one. If he knows you're not comfortable with him going he should respect that, pregnant or not!

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October 19th, 2012, 02:44 PM
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I am sooo sorry. I guess my only hope is that since this is his bachelor party, this is supposed to be be his last "hoorah?". My DH didn't have one.. but he has been to alot. I, like the other ladies, did not like the idea, but I trusted that he wouldn't cheat. I hope you feel the same about your soon to be hubby.

I wish I had more advice. I hope you won't rush to call off the wedding in a pregnancy rage. Believe you me, I have some SERIOUS rages this pregnancy all over. In one I basically said, this is my last pregnancy and if you even think about TOUCHING me again, I will cut off your hand. WOW.. I was feeling particulary sick that night and DH was his usual frisky self. Needless to say, I don't feel that way now.. but I was all ready to pack my bags and leave over it and we have had a very happy 3 years together. The hormones can just do insane insane things to you and if you were happy to be marrying him a month ago, before you found out you were preggo, hopefully after he returns home from the party you will refind that same feeling and have an amazing wedding.
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October 19th, 2012, 02:57 PM
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I'm a bit calmer now, but still super upset.
He knows I'm upset, so he's going to do what he wants and not talk to me and hope that I get over it... his usual deal.
Whatever! He's makin' his bed and I'll let him lie in it.
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