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October 31st, 2012, 02:21 PM
CartersMommy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Ladies this is tough.... I tend to be a ray of happy most of the time but honestly since this weekend and the news I have been a mess. I am kind of distancing myself from everyone and feeling super sad.... ick

I just have hope one minute the next minute I go back to spotting and I loose hope, I feel good a few hours later and get hopeful again.... I am never away from my children. I am a stay at home mom and we just dont have many people to watch them so date nights are rare. I have spent the most time away from in the last five days than I have since they were born. I feel guilty my older son is getting anxiety about who is going to pick him up from school and if he has to go to the babysitters again. :/ These days at the hospital have been 8+ hours long and even though my husband is getting paid days off he is falling behind at work..... sorry to complain it is just hard!
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October 31st, 2012, 02:27 PM
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I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I can't even imagine being in your place. Just keep taking deep breaths, take it minute by minute. Sending you my thoughts and prayers.
Mommy to Isaac 8.1.07 Gabriel 7.2.09 and Samuel 6.15.13
Angel Babe 9-16-2012 5wks
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October 31st, 2012, 02:27 PM
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I can't imagine, Im sure it is super hard to be in such limbo and having these extreme and what I imagine would be kind of a rare situation. Im sorry your kids are feeling the affects of you having to be gone and mom guilt is the worst. But you need to take care of yourself and figure out what is going on with the baby because you might have a tough decision ahead of you. Im glad you came here to vent instead of keeping things bottled up. Im really hoping a miracle will happen and the baby will move and everything will be fine.

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October 31st, 2012, 02:30 PM
MrsLat's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am so incredibly sorry that you are going through all of this... I just cant even begin to imagine what it is like. Hang in there and stay strong. You are in my prayers.
JaxonJocelyn Gabriel Grayson and Scarlett

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October 31st, 2012, 02:40 PM
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Praying for you!!
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October 31st, 2012, 03:05 PM
eshute's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Your feelings are more than justified. It shows what an amazing woman you are to be thinking of others right now when you're in so much emotional pain. I am at magees right now waiting for my mom to get out of surgery. If we were friends in real life you could let loose on me. Sometimes that's what you need. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your bean!!!

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October 31st, 2012, 05:58 PM
CartersMommy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Honestly thank you ladies. I got to have a more normal evening... took my son to karate, made dinner, gave my kids baths and we are settling in to watch Charlie Brown an the giant pumpkin Doing my normal mom stuff has made me feel little better. I know I can do this through lots of prayer...I have no other choice. I appreciate you all being so kind to me.
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October 31st, 2012, 06:06 PM
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So sorry you're having a hard time. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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November 1st, 2012, 07:35 AM
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You're in our thoughts and prayers. It's hard now, but your kids won't remember it later, at least mine don't. Do what you have to and get extra snuggles inbetween.

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November 1st, 2012, 09:15 AM
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Hang in there, mama.

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November 1st, 2012, 09:30 AM
Kalynas_Mom's Avatar Super Mommy
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So sorry your having such a rough time. I can't even imagine. Hope your enjoying time with your kids and giving yourself room to relax and feel however it is you need to at that moment
Mom to my wildchild Kalyna (Dec 2008)

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November 1st, 2012, 10:43 AM
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Im so sorry that your having a tough time
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