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November 1st, 2012, 05:07 PM
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I was wondering if anyone else is experiencing this....

When my DH and I found that I was pregnant, we were intimate 2 days later. I was about 4 weeks pregnant. I spotted the next day and then it subsided. That was 3 weeks ago tomorrow. It did scare me and I told him about it. I even spoke to my doctor about it and he said that spotting can occur after sex during pregnancy at different points. He wasn't worried about it.

Well, now 3 weeks later we still haven't been intimate and I don't like it! Lol
We almost were intimate this morning, we were both pretty ready...then he said, "is it safe?"
It finally dawned on me that this was why he hadn't even attempted anything! I was starting to think it was me. I have gained 7 pounds in a month! Lol

Any tips?
should I just make a trip to fascinations or reassure him that as long as we're being careful it appears that it's ok ?
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November 1st, 2012, 05:14 PM
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It is fine unless your doctor says otherwise.. and it sounds like you already got the green light from him I always spot after sex when I am pregnant.
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November 1st, 2012, 05:25 PM
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My doc told me no sex because I've had some spotting. I've had one orgasm since I've been pregnant, and it caused horrible cramping. It only lasted like 30 sec, but that has totally turned me off sex. My hubby is scared too.
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November 2nd, 2012, 10:34 PM
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Thanks ladies!

Well, we had a little mattress mambo last night and guess what???
No Spotting this time!
Although, we did a lot kissing and caressing, once we got going it was very gentle and slow.
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