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April 28th, 2013, 11:14 AM
HorseGal's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Anyone else feeling like a touch-me-not? I have this really bad, like I still want to cuddle my son but I don't want SO to cuddle on me AT ALL. It's terrible and so unlike me, I'm a very physical person but I just have no interest at all. When pregnant with my first I was a DTD-a-holic, but I also felt tons better then. Now I'm just tired and dizzy and blah.
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April 28th, 2013, 12:02 PM
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Yes, this is totally me right now & I feel so bad about it! I prefer to hug/kiss them on my own terms. We are a really affectionate family, so are just used to hugging/kissing whenever. I will be glad when the first trimester is over!

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April 28th, 2013, 01:03 PM
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I'm still cuddly...But I just feel so tired when dh wants "love" I want to but then I fall asleep on him... Feelnso bad for my dh
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April 28th, 2013, 01:10 PM
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So far this pg I am not feeling that way. I am actually so grateful. I remember my 1st pg I was the same way. I didn't want DH looking at me, touching me, anything. I thought it was awful that I didn't even want to be intimate with my DH. So happy things are different this time around. It's still early and I hope things don't change, FX'd!

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April 28th, 2013, 01:13 PM
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I don't have a problem with being cuddly with my son. But dh is a different story. We're definitely overdue for sex lol. Poor guy.. But he always wants to at the worst times! It'll pass when i start feeling better.

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April 28th, 2013, 03:26 PM
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I feel the same. DH knows the drill. Luckily he works a lot so he's too tired for cuddling or more, too. Not that I want him to be too tired but it is helpful for now.

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April 28th, 2013, 04:58 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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I hate being touched when I don't feel good. Unfortunately, this goes for my kids too. I'm trying to be patient with Patrick, because he's used to just climbing on me whenever. But right now, when he starts climbing on me it takes all my effort not to push him away with all my limbs. Ugh.
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April 28th, 2013, 05:19 PM
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I was for a few weeks but this past week me wanting him has returned and he is thankful. With Greyson we didn't get to DTD from 14-34 weeks because I was high risk . I wasn't allowed any touching in my places or to finish if you get my drift....wondering if this time around will be the same!

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April 28th, 2013, 08:51 PM
*Leah*'s Avatar TTC the newfashioned way
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I would...but I'm not allowed to until after the first u/s...and for some reason that makes me want to more lol!!!
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April 28th, 2013, 09:23 PM
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Yes, and I feel terrible. I feel my worst at night. Can't wait for it to pass.
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April 29th, 2013, 12:13 PM
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We are not suppose to either for a few more weeks but that makes me want it more!
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
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Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
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